what if a wife is an atheist and the husband is very religious Christian(or vice versa) and she want kids but he doesn't want his kids raised as atheist what would u do if u were the Christian or the Atheist.
2007-09-04 13:53:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
NATAS both the parentwould be fighting for the other
2007-09-04 13:58:07 · update #1
I wouldn't marry someone who has different beliefs or doesn't believe what I do. Or I would have stated my beliefs up-front before things got serious and come to an agreement. Marriage can be hard enough without throwing other complications on it.
If they are already married and this suddenly becomes an issue, I would try to compromise with my husband, where I could take my child to church, but my husband could explain his views about why he doesn't believe in God. If both are secure in their beliefs/non-beliefs, they shouldn't have a problem with this. As a Christian, I would also be praying for my child (and my husband) to find God.
2007-09-04 14:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by kaz716 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Christian, I would never marry an atheist. That's just asking for problems.
2007-09-04 13:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Faye 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would never marry someone that was atheist if i was christian becuase there whole life views are different and there way of thought is different too. I suggest you try and make her see your point of views and see if she/he turns christian. If not than its the kids choice when they grow up what they want to be and they might be misleaded and turn into the wrong direction.
2007-09-04 13:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Diane D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG!!! next component you will start up thinking human beings can take a seat in front of their computers and log into some form of enormous international community and communicate and play with human beings international huge. besides, a million is extra beneficial because you're conscious and could a minimum of attempt to shelter it.
2016-10-17 23:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to think that when/if I do get married, I'll be part of the small percentage of people who don't marry the wrong person. A situation like that should've been talked about well ahead of time.
2007-09-04 13:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dethklok 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was a misunderstandment, she wants kids but doesnt want them to be raised in a godless or non-religious atmosphere. where they can grow in the belief that they make their own choices and are free from being damned for missing a sunday, but that is a little erradic
2007-09-04 13:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by midnitepoets 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how long you have been married, but the wife and I have been married 40 plus years. We solved the problem the way most are solved. Compromise.
2007-09-04 13:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by What? Me Worry? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have worked it out before I got married. Rather you want children or not is a deal breaker.
2007-09-04 13:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you sure do have plenty of time on you hands dont you
you would ned to get your head tested if u married someone with opposing beliefs than yours (whatever they are)
2007-09-04 14:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by one of a kind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let the kids to chose by themselves what they want to believe
2007-09-04 13:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋