how do I kick out my older brothers who are 20+?

Question

Here's the problem.
My older brothers who are over 24+ came and starting living with my father and I. They dont pay for anything and they eat everything in the house, it pisses me the **** off. I tried telling my dad to take charge and tell them to get the **** out but he wont or he'll feel bad and he's too much of a softy. So any ideas on how to get these ******* out of the house?

Answer 1

If it's your Dad's house, and if he pays all or most of the bills, then there isn't really anything you can do. You should certainly tell your father that you think they are taking advantage of him, but it is his decision. Unless your father is the one to kick them out, there is nothing you can do. And even if he does eventually kick them out, you will still look like the 'bad guy'.

In the end, you might have to just move out yourself, assuming you are financially able to do so. But, be sure to keep in contact with your father, explain that you are leaving because of your brothers, and that you will still be there for him. Visit him often, take him out, and keep that contact. But, accept that until he tells your brothers to leave there is nothing you can do.

Answer 2

Its hard to get them out when its not actually your house. Does your dad feel like they are taking advantage? Have you tried talking to them about how disrespectful they are being to their dad and you. Apart from talking to them or keeping on at your dad, I cant see what else you can do. You dont have a right to.. I know your intentions are good but you can only lead a horse to water, you cant make it drink... the desition has to be your dads. So sorry that he is being treated in this way. How frustrating. Its a shame that he cant take your feeling into consideration over this as well as his own. Its not doing the lads anygood letting them think they can treat people this way. Does your dad know that being soft he is actually setting a bad example. Best of luck.

Answer 3

Well Reggie, how old are you? If you are 18 or over, it would be impossible for me to give you advise for your brother(s) if you are in the same boat. Are you contributing with anything like bills or food? Hopefully, you are not jealous that your father is supporting your brother(s) too?
If your father wants to help your brother(s) it is up to him. It is your father's house, so it is his rules. Your father is a grown man and will speak up if he is tired of supporting everyone. Don't take kindness for weakness.
-Good luck.

Matthew 7:3
"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?

Matthew 7
Judging Others
1"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

Luke 6:42
How can you say to your brother, 'Brother, let me take the speck out of your eye,' when you yourself fail to see the plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.

Answer 4

if he wont,(your dad)does he gives you green light?who does their laundry? who cooks?where do they sleep? there is many ways to get people to get up and leave.wherent you once a kid? go for it,or just open the door real wide and tell them its time to stop the mooching and get going. i have always been a pain on everybodys neck,because i can make your life a living hell with pranks alone if i want to. come on no one has to know and it will be fun,a marker in their pants pocket before wash,more salt on their food,by itchy soap,dog toothpaste,oh my god,i refuse to go on incriminating myself your honor!,good luck!!!

Answer 5

Well, unless it's your house on your property, you just have to tough it. Your dad can invite anyone to live on his property whenever he wants. It's law.