i was just sitting here thinking about how men has done us women wrong for decades, i was wondering why us women find it so easy to forgive, but if women do the same **** a man does to us numerous of times, why cant man find room in their heart to forgive us, when we would forgive ya'll in a heart beat?? just a thought
p.s. havent a women forgave you for some foul **** you have done before in the past??
2007-09-04 06:07:10 · 8 answers · asked by butterfly_eyez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have forgiven other women for some mean stuff they pulled on me. If your mature enough then you'll be able to forgive the other person and move on. I couldn't hold a grudge against any women. It just not worth it and will eat you up.
Have I messed up in the past? Sure and I've been forgiven since I could say that I was sorry for what happened. We're still friends to this day.
Besides we're all imperfect humans anyway. Forgive and forget. Move on and be happy in your life.
2007-09-04 06:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by jose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do not over generalize. Your opening line about men doing women wrong for decades is complete garbage. You cannot judge a whole gender for the behaviour of individuals, or groups. Men have also been wronged by women. People get hurt, that's life, and you cannot go through life feeling like a victim, or carry the anger of past generations for things that happened to them. You have your own hurt, own that, not everyone else's.
Second of all, if you haven't been forgiven for something that has happened in your life, then the person you were with wasn't the right person. If you love someone, you forgive them when the pain goes away. In the past I did something to a woman, I felt sorry, asked for forgiveness, but she still broke it off with me. I can't blame you or anyone else for that because you are a woman, that is just silly. I can only look at it as something between her and I, not her gender.
Give this some thought.
2007-09-04 13:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are like women, some can be trusted and others are not. I don't deny that there is a double standard. But there are things about females that comes natural also. For example how many times do you hear about a woman getting out of a traffic ticket because of crying or smiling at the cop. I dont think it would help me much. If all of your guys cheat maybe it is time to look in other circles for a special guy. If he will lie or be sneaky with anyone else then he will cheat or lie to you. Read the hand righting on the wall when you date and you wont have to live with his bad decisions after you are married. Good luck
2007-09-04 13:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been forgiven for things that I never considered to be a "crime". Like maybe I got drunk or forgot a birthday. She would get very upset if I forgot a birthday. She eventually forgives, but I definitely have to take steps to gain her forgiveness. If she forgot my birthday, I would only tease her a little bit and expect that next time I forget something like that then she doesn't make a big deal about it.
As far as cheating. I have never been caught cheating. I would expect that she would not ever forgive me for that. I think that only really applies for married couples because before I was married we both would do the convenient break up trick when we wanted to see someone else. Then it wasn't cheating because technically we broke up.
2007-09-04 13:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, I have been TOLD that I was forgiven but it always got brought some where down the road. I have also forgiven, the same lady, I do not remember exactly how many times for the same MAJOR screw up that has done over the past 4 years. I do not bring that up to her but it is alright for her to throw past issues in my face? Not this man, not now not ever. If forgiven it is the past leave back there, do not bring the past back LEAVE IT BACK THERE.
2007-09-04 13:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by psycho magnet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl not all men are the same. Take down the wall and understand that. Somethings no matter who did it are unforgivable, and somethings are. And I have never done some foul **** to a woman. That is not the proper way to treat a lady.
2007-09-04 13:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if a woman says she forgives you, three years down the line she'll throw it in your face. so which is better? and not to mention women screw guys over just as much.
2007-09-04 13:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by renegadechef9_0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women don't have the balls to say ****.
2007-09-04 13:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋