i'm his first girlfriend, and i've gone to third base. what would he think?
2007-09-04 03:37:16 · 33 answers · asked by demonslayer_65 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DON'T SAY ANYTHING!
We gals are under the impression that total honesty is the best thing when it comes to a relationship. But my advice is to not divulge if he doesn't ask, and to be honest - is it really any of his business?
2007-09-04 03:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Done 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've posted this before and the answer is still that it's a bad idea...your current lover only needs to know about your past experiences where his health is concerned (and if you have any kids in your custody) but beyond that, you risk jealousy and other issues by opening up about your past sexual activity.
Just because you are his first gf, doesn't mean he's never had a lover...would you really want to know if and how many women he'd been with in the past? REALLY? (I doubt it).
EDIT: Besides, in your post yesterday you said "I told him tonight" so why are you asking our opinion after the fact? Either you lied yesterday, or the cat's already out of the bag...so deal with it.
2007-09-04 03:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time having physical experiences. Let me fast forward this a few years. Will you be happy telling your husband about all the men you let fondle you and such? He will know that other men have had their way with you and that is a crap load to deal with in a new marriage.
back to today. You can tell that boyfriend and there is no telling what he will think but I want YOU to think about how your sexual experiences will affect your relationships to come.
2007-09-04 03:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by dahnnna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you believe third base to be. Is that the hand up your crotch or something like that?
You don't really have any more experience than he does other than being felt up. Don't say anything about it.
2007-09-04 03:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Panama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO!! NO!!!
I won't advise you to because it always ends up being thrown in your face no matter how much you guys love each other. It's the same the other way round too. Just imagine you knowing about all your boyfriends past girlfriends and what they did together, will it make you happy? I don't think so.
Let sleeping dogs lie please!
2007-09-04 03:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by let'stalk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO do not do this. It is none of his business what went on with anyone else before you were his girlfriend. you do not know what he would think so why bring up the past? Ever heard the saying "Let sleeping dogs lie?" It was written for you, honey.
2007-09-04 03:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Third base is not a big deal. And it really isn't his business. Wait until the time is right and then, maybe.
2007-09-04 03:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't if I was you. This sort of confidence can make people feel very insecure. It creates jealousy, a; every uncomfortable emotion that is hard to deal with. If you have a row (everybody does sometime) then all your stories can surface.
2007-09-04 03:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definetly talk openly about your past sexual experiences because he might be excited about it since you're his first girlfriend and he'll get to do that too, or he'll be upset or mad about it because you've done things before he has.
just tell him and see what he has to say.
2007-09-04 03:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by allis0nx3babyy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him about your past sexual experiences if you share your secrets and also if he loves you then he will not do you anything or even break up with you but rather believe in you
2007-09-04 03:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by genev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋