This girl I hang with at college is beautiful all the boys eye her up and ask her out but not me. I'm not ugly. Boys do like me, but not when she's around. How can I get noticed more? It's driving me craaazy!
2007-09-04 03:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by stunnin_always 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a man's world I can't explain. dont worry.
If you work hard to get noticed, then you make a big mistake.
Believe me
2007-09-04 03:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been on both ends of this situation. Most often I lose friends when I am the one the guys hit on most. When I am the one who is next to the girl always being hit on, it kind of relieves me from the unwanted attention. I happen to know that most guys are only after one thing. My last boyfriend left me because he said if he didn't then I would leave him first, and why would I want somebody like him when I could have anybody, blah, blah, etc.
It might seem like some sort of glory but it's not. Sure it's nice to have your pick but they don't stick around because they're too intimidated by beauty and they know they're not worth it. Most of my relationships were physically abusive and I was eventually dictated into staying in - not even allowed to talk to my girlfriends on the phone.
So I'm sure my answer does not help you on what to do or how to feel better about it but sometimes it helps to know what it's really like. I have no body now because girls are jealous of me and don't want any attention taken from them. Please don't throw her away, instead use it to your advantage. Sugar draws flies right. I'm not saying to use her or to take her throw aways but try to be positive about it.
If that's you in the avatar picture I really don't think you have much to worry about. Stay yourself - don't change, and don't blame the girl because guys drool - they just want to use her to say they had her. And those are not the kinds of guys that either of you want.
2007-09-04 03:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by DanceCat Squiggy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 17:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens a lot more often than you might think. My advice is to set yourself apart from your friend when you're in social situations. Either you can literally separate for a short time and establish yourself in another area of the party of locale, or set yourself apart from her, personality-wise.
The truth is, most of the callous guys will always go for the "hottie" in a social college situation. This is because they lack substance and are not interested in a person they can sustain a conversation (let alone a relationship) with, since they're basically interested in one thing.
2007-09-04 03:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by smbfc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Are you sure all the men are paying attention to her or are you ignorning some of them men that look at you because you are distracted by the activity around your friend or these men don't meet some standard you have set?
2007-09-04 03:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by khrome_wind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going out on your own from time to time and you will get noticed for you. Or find some girls that are uglier than you and hang out with them.
2007-09-04 03:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is strange. There's great looking men sometimes have unattractive women. and Butt ugly men going out with georgous women. Your time will come. There's somebody for everybody.
2007-09-04 03:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ham8888888888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more confident and not attention clingy but be the one to start the conversations and be the one to end the conversation. Guys love confidence and sexyness!
2007-09-04 03:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but that is a hard one. Just try to remember that the guys only going straight to her are the shallow ones that you don't really want anyway.
2007-09-04 03:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by misbotta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey cutie
2007-09-04 03:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Balrog 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋