Is there something to this?
2007-09-04 03:11:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It makes me wonder too...there are too many 'friends with benefits' these days. Where women are willing and freely happy to provide sex to their guy friends even when they are aware that they have a girlfriend. it disgusts me.
But after thinking through, i feel that these girls are just definitely lonely and selfish. Probably feeling lost and vulnerable, seeking short-term joy.
They probably know they are being taken advantage by this non-committed guys, but they have no choice because they can't find love or man who can provide long term satisfaction.
Unfortunately, things materialize simply because there are guys who view such sex as insignificant and would go for it when they are offered or easily available despite being attached.
In most cases the guy would have out rightly communicate that they already have a girlfriend. Pushing the responsibility on the girl, to decide whether they want to pursue the affair. Sort of like - making it clear to the girl hoping that it will make themself less guilty when they cheat on their gf.
in all situation, it takes 2 to clap.
The reality is there are far to many sick and pathetic pple out there. relationships are going through a lot more challenge than before, where women are less proactive in coming onto guys...
2007-09-04 03:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are some men willing to sleep with women who are in a relationship? Why do some women seek out men who are in a relationship? Why do some men seek out women who are in a relationship?
There are people in both sexes that are willing to cheat with someone or on someone and I'm sure they'll all give varying excuses depending upon the situation. There are also relationships that are open or that contain more than one partner. This is something that exists purely in the grey.
2007-09-04 03:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men may be jealous of me.
My problems that too many women want to sleep with me, and I am a push-over ... the women I have slept with, they invariably have a story that leads me to help them out ... it gets very expensive.
How come women want to sleep with me?
Well I guess when dressed, I act like a perfect gentleman & play hard to get, then when we are intimate, I insist on delivering a massage. My strategy is to do such a good job that she becomes addicted to what I can deliver.
I pride myself on giving her more orgasms in one night than she has ever had in her life from any other man.
I have not yet been able to deliver 100 in one night, about the closest I have got to is around 75.
Whenever I have a girlfriend, there's always several other women wanting me to ditch her and make THEM my girlfriend instead. No matter how firm I am about saying I want to be true to one lady at a time, they can be very persuasive.
2007-09-05 16:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From women that I have seen do it is to bolster their ego and they are sure that they can take the man away from the girlfriend.
It usually has nothing to with wanting the guy or having sex, it is just wanting something someone else has just become someone else has it and they feel powerful when they feel that they can ruin a relationship. If the guy's girlfriend dumps him for cheating and is no longer wanted by the other girlfriend, the cheating girl loses interest in the guy and no longer finds him desireable.
2007-09-04 03:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to answer a question with a question...but how come men with girlfriends sleep with other women?
I believe there is something to that!
2007-09-04 05:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Same reason guys are willing to sleep with a married woman. You've made an inconclusive regard to a matter we've all been trying to figure out.
2007-09-04 03:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by LadyD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that man wants to cheat on his girlfriend by having multiple sex partners or perhaps the other women in his life are total freaks.
2007-09-04 03:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by slimdude142 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because the guy lets it happen?
Maybe the woman recognizes unhappiness in that man?
Why do men sleep with women who have boyfriends?
2007-09-04 06:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by New Moon Daughter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A man already with a girlfriend, demonstrates that he is capable of attracting the opposite sex, which is a subconscious prerequisite to being 'attractive'. If you're the more dominant of your peer group too, then this reinforces that.
2007-09-04 03:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can ask the same question about men wanting to sleep with a man's WIFE. n
2007-09-04 03:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋