2007-09-04 03:04:10 · 28 answers · asked by puffa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a letter.
Only don't ring twice.
2007-09-04 03:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by the7thseal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suppose that, assuming she is single, you should tell he that you've really come to "fancy" (I'm American and that sounds so sweet) her over the last 5 years and are wondering if she might like to go out to dinner sometime? Be prepared for her to possibly say no, so if she does you are not absolutely crestfallen, but she might say yes. If you want you could ask her out for coffee too, but after 5 years, I think a dinner would be in order! Nothing outrageously expensive or romantic. A first date should be fun and memorable, but not where it's obvious the guy is trying to get you in the sack! Being up front is definitely the way to go.
I think a note would be creepy to me....
2007-09-04 03:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by alikat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so it has been 5 years, and you have just decided to make the move theat might or might not change your life. So there is two options really, and that is, #1 forget you even thought of the idea that you would like to get to know her. Or #2 be open and straight with her and tell her your feelings for her. Hope this helps. :-)
2007-09-04 03:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call. You could get shot down and make your route awkward from now on or you could end up making a great couple. I'm all for love so I'd say slip in a letter with her mail that has your honest feelings written down and see what happens.
2007-09-04 03:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably think she's way out of your league for you to wait that long. Well, guess what? she probably is. But just for the sake of it you could try asking her about her favourite dish and this time, deliver it instead of the letters.
2007-09-04 03:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, but I think you have missed your chance, you have become the dreaded "F" word (Friend) - if you make a move she will get scared and back off... maybe you can ask her out somehow but you will be doing well if you can ever shake the "friend" stigma.
2007-09-04 03:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by Harry Harrison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ask her for a date, dude. Her response will tell you whether it's worthwhile to pursue this thread or whether to being looking elsewhere for a relationship.
One question: why have you waited five years?
2007-09-04 03:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she single? About your age? If yes to both, ask her out and see if she's interested. If she says no, just keep it on a friendly basis. Never hurts to try.
2007-09-04 03:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by kbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would be a nice gesture to send her a letter. And then if she seems interested then go for it...You will never know unless you tell her...Good luck!
2007-09-04 03:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pass her a little note together with the letters next time you deliver.
2007-09-04 03:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get on with it! do it if it's not too late after 5 years!
2007-09-04 09:24:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋