because im having trouble finding a decent one! ive been on countless dating sites and all ive come across are conemen liars and cheats and those that dnt reply!
2007-09-04 02:43:59 · 47 answers · asked by wendy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, of course not.
2007-09-04 02:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Merry 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
As the wife that was cheated on - yes this is what they say. They use the kids as an excuse when really they are enjoying the company of their wife and the sex sometimes(in my case it was great so no reason to cheat on me) and also a bit of sex with someone on the side. They feel secure as if one leaves they still have the other. But mostly they don't want their wives to know as they don't want to leave them. Don't get involved as they will cheat on you too - I've seen this happen before. It could be possible for someone to fall in love and still be a good guy - yes - but they will immediately end their marriage, move out and wait until everything settles before starting a new relationship or cheating on their wife. Basically if he is prepared to cheat on his wife he'll cheat on you. If a man shows his wife respect then you'll get a good man. And likewise you are not a good catch for any man as you are prepared to break up a marriage where lets be honest here - most married couples don't use protection so she could be pregnant at any time and you are putting her at risk of STD's so there is nothing nice about what you did. The question should be what man will want a home wrecker like you pair? With no consideration for others feelings. If you want a nice bloke act nice to others and you'll attract one.
2016-05-21 01:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by edythe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, there's still some good guys out there. Im not a cheat or liar, and I know several guys who aren't either. I know it's harder for a women to find good guys nowadays but we still exist. I say you can do either two things, keep on trying to find a good guy by trial an error, or you girls can band together and don't give it up so quickly and deprive guys of sex etc...Imagine how many bad guys will become good guys because everywhere he turns, girls have the power instead of being easy. You girls could rule the world if you put you're minds together.
2007-09-04 02:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by #1bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not all men are cheats and liars. You are looking in the wrong places. Get out into your community. Go to the local football games, volunteer with your local Girl Scout Council. Volunteer at the local hospital, your church youth group, or at the library. Get involved in local politics make your community a better place to be...quit looking for a guy. When your busy, productive and happy one will find you that it worthy of your attention and affection. Good luck & best wishes.
2007-09-04 02:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might seem that way when you've just been hurt but you have to keep the faith. Try not to give your heart away so freely. I'm not saying to be suspicious, but just relax about dating without wondering if the next guy you meet is "the one". Trust comes with time, with proof of how you relate to each other and if you're there for each other no matter what. You can't guess that from dating alone. Go with it, and hold a little back until someone shows you they deserve your heart.
2007-09-04 02:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. Not all men are cheats and liars.
I have met some very honest, decent, good men. You cannot judge all men because a handful of jerks.
My father, father-in-law, husband, brothers-in-law, and many of my friends from work, and school are all good men.
They are hardworking, and love their families very much.
*edit: And FYI... I met my husband online. We have been married for almost 5 years (and we have a 5-month old baby boy). To some it may not seem like a big deal, BUT in todays society where many couples divorce within a 2 year period - it is kind of a big deal.
2007-09-04 02:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people(male and female) are in happy caring long lasting relationships....i wouldnt think that would be possible if ALL men are cheats and liars. it just depends on the guy. same the other way around, i've been cheated on by 2 of my girlfriends and one of em was a goldigger but i wont let those people define what a woman is to me
2007-09-04 02:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by Cnote 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. How about spending time involved in an activity or sport you enjoy so that you mix with people with a common interest. From there you may meet a different sort of man.
2007-09-04 02:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe so. I believe that our adult relationships are exactly what we've asked for in life. Whether we're aware we've been asking for it or not. I used to always end up with total losers too. Started to believe for a while that it was the way all men were. I swore off dating for a while. During that time, I sat back and took a good hard look at myself. Did a personal inventory. you need to look at yourself & see what it is about you that is allowing you to let these people in your life.
2007-09-04 02:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by PrincessJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men are cheats and liars. but i think you better not trust them easily. don't give your heart easily to strangers. get to know them for a while. time will tell if he's a nice guy or not so nice guy to be around. trust me, there's plenty of nice guy out there. good luck! additional: don't find date from the internet, GO OUT in real is much healthier.
2007-09-07 22:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Tea Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There are good men out there.
I know a few.
But I agree with whoever said, 'Get off the dating sites.'
That is just not going to work. I think in order to meet someone, you really need to meet them, like in person.
2007-09-04 02:50:02 · answer #11 · answered by Kia R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋