Like for example if your going out with somone what makes you lose interest in her?
2007-09-04 02:31:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll tell you the main thing that has made lose interest in a girl. and that is finding out the true person in someone. finding out that the girl you fell in love with is not who she really is. for example. My ex. I learned being up front with someone is how I want to be so that there is no surprises. No GAMES!! you know what i mean. well when i first met my ex, I told her what kind of guy I am, and what kind of girl I'm looking for. I told her I didn't want a party girl, drunk girls turn me off, I want someone that treats me the way I treat someone. I also told her I was tired of the club scene, and that I wanted to do outdoor stuff, travel, experience the better things in life and I wanted to share those moments with a special person. Well she told me she was tired of going out, tired of drinking, she doesn't drink anymore, she wanted to travel, and you know pretty much everything I wanted to hear. Pretty much puttin up a front. then 6 months go by and we're all happy and in love. well her true self started coming out. drinking a beer everyday at home like a damn old man watchin sports, I don't want a man, I want a woman dammit. we started goin out to clubs all the time and thats all we ever did. Damn I started hating her. She stopped working out with me and started losing her figure. So she pretty much pretended to be someone I wanted till she knew I fell for her. Well little did she know I don't tolerate that sh-t ne more. after a couple of talks and fights, I dropped her ***. See other guys would waste thier time on that. months to years. Not me. So advice to all girls, and guys too, be straight forward with who you are if you want a serious long happy relationship. Oh don't let the sex or attention Die. that drives men away too.
2007-09-04 02:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by tikaani77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that all guys are different. But i would say some girls get too into a guy too fast, and likewise, some guys get too into a girl too fast. It's not always that with lack of pursuit, it becomes boring, i think more often clingy-ness is unattractive. Because being way into someone after knowing them a week or two or a month, is just ridiculous and unrealistic. It shows immaturity, usually. When a guy is too into me too fast, it's a complete turn off. Because they can't really know enough about me to feel that way. Thier emotions and thier longing to be in a relationship is clouding thier judgement. I hate even more when any guy has said "I already know you," when i say something to the effect of "we need to get to know each other better." That's when i know they don't have a clue. As far as a guy that sleeps with girls and then moves on, he's a jerk. But i think most guys don't do that, there is also the guy that sticks around because he CAN get pussy, and he's also a jerk. But then there is the nice fellow that is actually into the girl and looking for a healthy relationship more than something to stick his cock in. So, no, not all guys move on after sleeping with a girl. But it's best to only sleep with guys you actually can trust, and care about quite a bit.
2016-04-03 02:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...usually I'll only lose interest in a woman....if she loses interest in me first...not the ladder. People need to recognize for themselves that they need to "ask for what they want" for both of your inherent needs significantly. Without fabulously marvelous conversation and communication with each other?.....you'll generally simply end up with nothing of real enthusiastic value honestly. It's your rights in a relationship to try and create good positive feelings and solutions together reasonably....not bad ones alternatively! Sound good to you hun?
2007-09-04 02:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We lose interest for the same reasons girls lose interest in guys. Just think of the reasons you lose interest and most of them could be applied to us.
2007-09-04 02:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honestly other girls thats why females tend to hold the strength in a relationship, a females power to hold a heart in umimaginable. Different things of spice and difference with change helps, trust me.
2007-09-04 02:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
accusations of not being truthful, when there is absolutely no evidence. No trust basically. Too much jealously. Its kinda cute at first but it gets old.
2007-09-04 02:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she's talks too much, drinks and makes loud noises and is noisy while eating (or speaks when her mouth is full.)
:D
2007-09-04 02:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seduction lack of seduction
seduct him
& he'll lov u
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2007-09-04 02:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by ryanroxandrulz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being too desperate & alway available to the sucker...make him sweat & make him wonder & want you more
2007-09-04 02:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nagging...weight fluxuations and obsessions...nagging...difference in hobbies and interests...nagging...boring sex a.k.a. "the pillow"...and oh yeah nagging
2007-09-04 02:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋