So my gf of not too long tells me i dont show that i care about her enugh. i told her i can make up for lost time.
Ladies wats the best way for makin a girl know you care about her???
2007-09-03 20:22:20 · 12 answers · asked by G0tA?22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Romance is different for every woman. What may be romantic to one is not always romantic to another. For example, I love it when my husband takes the kids and leaves the house so I can have time to myself. To me, it shows me how much he cares about me. For my friend Danielle, romance to her is getting jewelry from her husband and spending every possible minute together. She never gives her husband credit for doing the small things because she doesn't see them. To her, they're not big enough.
The best suggestion I can make to you is go buy Gregory Godek's book "1001 Ways to Be Romantic." This book changed the way I looked at romance, and it will help you figure out how to be romantic with whomever you're with for any day of the year. It's absolutely fabulous.
Hope this Helps.
2007-09-03 20:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by E.T. Barton 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should supply slightly greater data: eg. have you ever interior the final 2 years began a kin? must be that he has began seeing himself as a daddy extremely than a husband and lover, you should get that spark returned via spending on my own time as husband and spouse. Is is purely intercourse it is lacking or additionally communication? If communication is likewise lacking on your relationship you should purely be going your separate techniques, the linked fee in which you're drifting is so sluggish its infrequently substantial yet will bring about the top of your relationship in case you the two do no longer do something to end it. Is he spending time faraway from domicile greater many times? there is signs and indications that he's got here upon somebody else yet can no longer deliver himself to end your relationship. pointing out the reality that he's no longer providing you with adequate intercourse is a mushy component for a guy to debate and could probable lead just to much less and much less as he feels compelled, attempt spicing issues up via going out for dinner with one yet another, renting a movie and purely having a romantic evening in, or play a board game with a twist. Getting closer to a minimum of one yet another returned is the main commencing component, do no longer rigidity the subject of intercourse, purely enable it take place needless to say. As relationships cool down, so does the quantity of intercourse, it is purely organic.
2016-10-09 22:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by mcmahill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different things at different stages of the relationship.
Girls are individuals.... They like all sorts of things.
I love when my boyfriend sets up bubble baths with candles for me. I love when he gives me foot rubs and lets me watch sappy movies. Taking the initiative to plan a nice picnic is sweet. Surprising her with flowers, a cute note, or even a little text will let her know you're thinking about her.
It sounds like your girlfriend wants you to do something specific and she isn't being very clear about what it is. Ask her what is making her think you don't care about her. Find out if she has insecurities about anything specific before you go out trying to PROVE to her that you care.
Good luck with your girlfriend!
2007-09-03 20:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweet little things, really. Call her just to say hi because you like to hear her voice. Tell her she's special to you. Call her beautiful. Give her flowers, even if it's just one. A single rose can mean the world to a girl sometimes. Write her little notes that tell her you love her. Don't over do it, pace yourself, but do these things now and then to make her feel loved.
2007-09-03 20:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Accidental x Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends what kind of girl she is. Try spending some quality time together. Make her know you do care! Do things she likes. Make sure she knows she is special...girls love that
2007-09-03 20:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by poisenpriness121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving her plenty of attention and affection. Taking her nice places. Helping her out around the house.
2007-09-03 20:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everything in life is in the middle. you don't want to do to much but not to enough. so women like little things like notes, gifts, dates, phone calls, playtime every now and then. show affection in public, open the door for her.....do something!
2007-09-03 20:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by hotmama2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about her and how much you love spending time with her. It's hard for some guys to express themselves, so make sure you tell her.
2007-09-03 20:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by sarah v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl and date her. Chances are this one come with a lot of baggage.
2007-09-03 20:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by HarryParatesties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to ask her why, remind her that you still like her though
2007-09-03 20:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by .... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋