she cannot live without me but still sometimes she do hanky panky things cos in the past her atmosphere was like that
2007-09-03 20:18:53 · 23 answers · asked by Manvi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU WILL HAVE TO RESPECT THE DESIRE OF YOUR PARTNER WHEN IT IS GENUINE.
2007-09-07 02:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just have a serious discussion with her. Let her know that you're willing to accept the fact that she's flirty, but that it would really mean a lot to you if she would put fourth a little conscious effort to flirt a little bit less. Let her know that you can't control the way you feel, and that you'd like to try and find a happy-medium, because you want this relationship to work, and you're having a hard time overcoming your "human flaws". In exchange, give her lots of attention; but play it cool. Don't just hug and kiss her all the time. *Flirt* with her. Try to act like you're "trying to make a good impression".
I think the worst thing you can do is allow your relationship to become *too* comfortable between each other. There should always be a little depth to it; even though you're together, you should constantly strive to be "the man" in her eyes. I think you'll find her less likely to flirt with other guys, and your own love life will improve. Hope it helps, man :)
2007-09-03 20:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jared C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just flirty, thats just the way they are. And just because shes flirty doesn't mean she wants to bonk other guys! If she truly loves you, and can't live with out you I'm sure she won't do anything to screw up a good thing.
Maybe have a chat with her and let her know how much it seriously hurts you, hopefully she'll realise whats important and make more of an effort.
Its sometimes hard for people to break bad habits. But as long as she's not cheating on you and you can still trust her, don't stress too much
:)
2007-09-03 21:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ray Chill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean she flirts with others?? With you around?? Well that is an immature attention seeking behavior that is immature and will lead to trouble--she knows what she is doing--and she knows you don't like it--this girl is silly and self centered and taking terrible advantage of you--go find a girl that does not do this obnoxious stuff. She says she can't live without you?? That is just BS and said to KEEP YOU around so she can still play the way she does. Just get away from her before it gets ugly.This girl has real issues that you don't need to deal with.
2007-09-03 20:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be open and broadminded in modern society as all guys and gurls nowadays r of same nature less or more but true love stands between their lifelong relationship as females r not like goods or property nowadays so if u dont change urself will fall in great trouble after marraige with same or other gurl due to your reserve kind of conservative thinking.
2007-09-04 00:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpuppy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so easy for some people to BLAME anyone BUT themselves for what they do - - in reality, we ALL are responsible for knowing what is right and what is wrong. This girl will NOT do anything to change her ways because she still has her "past" to blame it on. As long as she holds on to that, she will BE that way.
Tell her you feel sorry for her because she lives in the past and holds on to things that are not good - BUT, you live HERE, TODAY, and you will be moving ON - forward, ahead, without her.
2007-09-03 20:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will real "djradss" stand up please?
1.My boyfriend is younger to me ,we r in livin relation fr 2 years,
but he is scare of society?
2.My meditation is gettin me close to god and far from my girlfriend,
she's gettin hurt,wat to do?
3.My boyfriend dominates and keep too much control on me,
what shld i do?
4.I want 2 live a spiritual life but my girlfriend fights with me and
is a great obstacle in my to god?
5.My girlfriend is flirty by nature,she loves me but i cnt take her
flirtness,should i leave her?
2007-09-03 21:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by charlatan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't take your girlfriend's flirtations ; break up and find somebody else .
Some girls are like that ; there is no harm in it , or even infedelity . If you have the patience to put up with it ; live and let live ; in time you may find she always comes back to you , whom she really loves .
2007-09-03 21:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by kitiyapron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about it. If you love her and she loves you, she will understand. Maybe just ask her to tone it down a little bit. Everyone flirts, its nature, but there is a line that shoudnt ever be crossed.
2007-09-03 20:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by You can do it!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she embarrasses you,and makes you look bad.Like you can't keep her happy in bed.Why,does she do this?Some day she could flirt with the wrong man,and get raped.This is not a smart thing to do.
2007-09-03 20:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't live without you? but she still needs all the attention from other guys? Sounds like she has insecurity issues. Good luck with that.
2007-09-03 20:24:43 · answer #11 · answered by Lisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋