Help how do I get out of Babysitting my bro. My Parents wanna go out and they want me to babysit him but I dont wanna coz I have plans and I dont wanna have to change nappy's and all that stuff
2007-09-03 19:49:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is part of being a member of a family. Everyone has to pitch in.
2007-09-03 19:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have real commitments that people are relying on you for (not just going out), sounds like family duty. You get used to changing dirty nappies, though maybe you already know that. Also, the advantages of having a baby brother outweigh the disadvantages and he is your family, for life. Down the track if you have kids, it would be nice to think you can rely on your parents to help you out and look after them sometimes. It is more fun than you think, if you are willing to give it a go (maybe you already know that too though). Bad luck about the plans. Maybe if you are pretty good about babysitting when being asked, when you have major plans and commitments, your folks will be more inclined to let you out of it. Maybe sometimes you can take your brother out with you (esp. when he gets older). Good luck.
2007-09-03 21:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You ungrateful lump. Your parents had to change your nappies and all that stuff and this is how you repay them. You are eating their food and living in their house and costing them all kinds of money with all the things you must have and you cannot allow them a little time to enjoy being together after all the hard work they do for your selfish little butt. they need to put you out with the dirty nappies because you are just about as sweet. Shame on you.
2007-09-03 19:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
1. You ask your parents politely to hire another sitter or reschedule their date.
If they say no...
2. Ask to be paid. They may let you off if you feel you deserve money for the job, and if not at least you are making some cash.
If they refuse to pay you and still make you babysit...
3. Don't complain. Just do as your told. Be respectful and appreciative of the roof over your head, the warm water you took a shower with this morning, and the food you are so lucky to have. Eventually this will earn the respect of your parents and they will see that you are a responsible person capable of more freedoms.
2007-09-03 19:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by RG 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
In future:
He can cover your secrets
He can participate your lies or secret operations (social support)
You can borrow money from him (financial support)
You can both to go out and have fun with girls
He can do whatever to make you happy
He can do whatever to make your life as hell
It only depends on how well you take care of him. So be patient and look after your brother. He needs your help right now but maybe you'll need his help in future. Who knows?
Good luck
2007-09-03 20:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ardelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard, espically when you have 'a life' and want to do things to, but think about it....I'm sure your parents have made alot of sacrafices for you, and they would be very happy if you could help them out a bit. And think, if they are happy, I'm sure you'll be happier. If it's a constent thing that they are asking you to do, be sure that you are telling them about your plans in advance so they don't plan their nights out when you have yours. Be considerate of their needs too, and I'm sure you'll feel rewarded too.
2007-09-03 20:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by tigerbuttins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JJ,you should see this as an opportunity to express your gratitude to your parents for babysiting you when you were a baby.and also tell your little brother you love him(you are lucky you have one).Try to make it fun its a thing of the mind!
2007-09-03 21:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by miconqueror 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having brothers and sisters means sharing in the responsibilies once in a while. your folks need time to themselves and they want to go out--so you need to step up and help out. you are a kid--your plans are second when it comes to family---family is number one. Changing diapers is a natural thing--someone changed yours a few times when you were a baby. grow up and help out--it won't kill you. You whine about it and you won't get much respect from your folks--the ones who thought you were mature enough to handle the chores. If you make them stay home--you are a creep
2007-09-03 20:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's definitely NOT your responsibility to have to watch your lil' bro. You should ask to be paid, or for some sort of compensation(a weekend spent w/ friends, one less chore, a new t-shirt...). They will either pay you or spend their whole nite worrying what you could be doing to your lil' bro!
2007-09-03 20:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Daya81 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Family always take priority until you have a family of your own then they will take second place. You will thank your parents one day when you are old enough to realise it.
2007-09-03 20:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by Tamart 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋