my doctor is young, and good looking. he recently got married. when i went in for my yearly, he said he needed to massage my boobs, since it was a better way of checking for lumps than doing the circles with his fingers. i have to admit i enjoyed it, but am wondering if this was appropriate. i have to go in for a recheck on my tonsilectomy later this week, and wonder if i should make a pass, or just let it go. what should i do????
2007-09-03 19:41:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make a pass. If you're wrong and he was innocently doing an examination, you will look like a fool. Plus, he's married.
2007-09-03 19:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yo Cyber_u --
your doctor twiddled your taataas and it tingled your wazoo !! It thrilled you to the point where you're making a fantasy out of a tingly and considering making your tonsil check into some other form of explorations !!
Dangerous ground, here, cyber person -- making for an awkward set of doodah for both of you should this go askew !! The doctor has FAR more to loose in this game than YOU --- and if you want to do "fantasy" -- there are a thousand dudes who are not all that bad to look at that would be thrilled to "play" doctor with you who are not married and could probably give you about as thorough an examination AS any doctor you know !!! Make them wear a white lab coat and a stethoscope if that makes you feel any better about it !!!
Hell, they could even charge you for an office visit later if that was in keeping with the "reality" of things, here !!
2007-09-04 03:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was there a nurse in the room with you? I think by law or maybe for the doctor's protection, doctors need to have a nurse present when any type of check is being done on a patient of the opposite sex. If there wasn't a nurse, I'd tell my parents (if you're a minor) & pursue this.
2007-09-04 02:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by Crossfire Kelly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH GOOD GOD! First you think he was out of line, you KNOW he is married, BUT you "enjoyed" it anyway - - obviously the only time you NOTICE procedure changes is if the Doctor is young and cute!! Breast checks changed many years ago!!
COME DOWN OFF yourself and check in to reality. This Doctor sees MANY women daily, and no doubt some of THEM are nice to look at too - the guy is MARRIED which means "OFF LIMITS". I cant believe you actually thought he was flirting with you... how egotistical.
2007-09-04 02:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would let it go this time.. every doctor i have had does it differently.. men and women doctors.. if you have large ones like me they have to do it different to feel down deep in there the best they can.. just pay attention next time and see what he does.. then if it don't feel right to you then tell him.. most of them will have nurses in there with them for just that reason.. so both are comfortable.. he cant do something you don't want and you cant say something happened that didn't is why they have nurses in there.. you can always request a nurse to be in there during those kind of exams.. i would if i was uncomfortable.. good luck
2007-09-04 02:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a pass, didn't you say he recently got married!!! He is just a DR. they shouldn't give a license to!!!! My doctor goes in a circular motion around my breasts not massage them!! I don't think its appropriate for him to do that!! If he does it again, report him!! You may not be the only one he's fondling!!:)
2007-09-04 02:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gawd! Some of you are just way over the top. The doctor has to touch you to examine you. Please grow the hell up and get you trampy little brain out of the gutter before you get the doctor fired and divorced over your trifle B.S. You're probably making this all up anyway because a real doctor has to have a female nurse in the examining room at all times.
2007-09-04 02:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Geeesh don't make a pass. The doctor could end up in jail.
And really he might be feeling for lumps.
If not, you need to report him to the cops and the medical association. Or he might continue to moleste other women.
2007-09-04 02:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure. Isn't it normal for a doctor to feel your boobs when looking for lumps? It might just be in your head.
2007-09-04 02:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u cracked? doctor could lose his license to practice are you sure it was fondling? if so it should be reported to the AMA as to this does not happen to any child who may have been sexually abused or raped. I worked with a lot of doctors and you are just another notch on the bedpost. Please have respect for the marriage and SEE ANOTHER DOCTOR ASAP you are there for medical treatment not an sexual encounter
2007-09-04 02:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by janiejigpinkpanther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋