A chihuahua, my mom is being difficult?

Question

My family currently owns a dalmation. everyone loves her and wouldn't give her up for the world. However, she is the family dog...I have always wanted a chihuahua to call my own and love me as his/her master. Just one problem, my mom will let me get a chihuahua...but only if we get rid of sadie, the family dog. Now i don't ask for much these days...i cant even think of a thing i want for my birthday! my mom loves me very much and would do anything for, how can i convince my mom to let me have a chihuahua?


p.s. she has fallen for this before, i wanted a rabbit but she completly refused, but eventually gave in...too bad rabits dont last as long as chihuahuas

I guess i should add..

Im 16 and live in my mom basement, for college i already have the whole basement at my dads house right by the college. Im also not expecting my mom to pay for everything, of course i will buy the dog and some supplies, but maybe she could just pay for vet visits? Sadie is a very timid dog, and i think she would warm up to a baby of her own. maybe i should just write the pros and cons of getting another dog and see if my mom changes her mind

Answer 1

I doubt that your mom is being difficult. She's probably being sensible. Two dogs are twice the cost, twice the responsibility.

As a minor, the cost and care of your dog will be your mom's responsibility. It doesn't sound like she has the desire, or ability, to take on another burden.

Another issue is your age. Growing up is all about change. Sometimes, those changes leave little time for pets. Between school, driving, socializing and work, life can get very busy.

Most teens assume that they'll move out with their pet. Moving with pets is always a challenge, though a tiny dog is much easier. However it's been my experience, that when most kids move away, they usually don't take the pets.

As for being "your" dog - a properly trained and socialized dog should respect all of the family members as pack leaders. It may bond to someone else, if you're not around.

And, if you really love your dalmation and other animals, you'll consider any possible consequences, before taking on a new one. The animals that you have should always be your first priority.

Answer 2

My chihuahua absolutely loved the Dalmatian next door and actually grieved when they had to have him put to sleep. Dino does not like the little Boston Terrier thay got to replace Buster, partially bacause she's a bundle of energy and all over Dino, but also, I think, because he misses Buster. Small dogs and big dogs can mix -- I also have a picture of my dog paying with a Great Dane. Perhaps your mom's concern is two mouths to feed, two vet bills, two butts to clean up after, two of everything when the family can afford loyalty and funds to one dog at a time.
Learn all that you can now while still under your parnets' roof and be well prepared for getting a dog of yourown as soon as you move out. Just be prepared. Even if your mom buys the dog for you, that's only the first $400, the rest is all yours -- food, dish, vet, neutering, rug replacement, squeaky toy, etc.

Answer 3

I don't think she's being difficult. For one thing, Chihuahuas can be expensive, depending on where you get them from. Breeders can charge up to $1,000 and more. Consider that in addition to the initial cost of the dog, there will be veterinary bills (vaccinations, neutering, possible illnesses & injury), food, toys, bedding, etc. Are you expecting mom to pay for all of that, as well? Also, chihuahuas can live 15 years or more. When you are ready to move out of your parent's home, are you sure that you can take the chihuahua with you? Most dorms and apartments don't allow pets. There's a good chance that mom will be stuck with YOUR dog.

Answer 4

A chihuahua is a difficult breed and doesn't get along with children. The average vet bills for little dogs, teeth cleaning, checkups, vaccinations run between $500 to $1000 a year. Special foods and toys, chewies, pet sitters when you're away add up, too. Check the American Kennel Association web site for all info on this breed. You also didn't say how old you were or responsible you are.

Answer 5

I would ask why she doesn't allow a chihuahua then make a resolution for that problem. If she gives you a straight answer like "Because Sadie and the chihuahua won't get a long" then you should come up and type a resolution, I'm sure she will give it more thought if you spend so much time on this.

P.S. Don't ask in that whiney "But mom, why not?!" kinda way ask in a way that makes you sound reasonable.

Answer 6

Chihuahuas are a lot like sons and daughters, they choose a lot of hugs, interest and reassurance. they could additionally be particularly complicated to coach, I even have examine many chihuahuas will in no way get the carry of being residing house knowledgeable. In my journey, chihuahuas are no longer that autonomous. they choose consistent nutrition attainable because it particularly is straightforward for his or her blood sugar to drop and for them to get ill. They get chilly surely, overheat surely as they like to solar bake on very heat days and are sociable canines - mine opt to be around me each and all the time. If I stay over a acquaintances residing house for a night and bypass away my chi's at residing house with my mothers and fathers they often get sooky :-( Older chihuahuas often have various joint and obesity issues, and girls each physique is notoriously complicated to reproduce. Sorry for the long publish...In precis, regard getting this canines like having a baby. Your going to must be around him a lot, and could ought to tutor him to act and lay down the regulations. Chihuahuas stay for approximately 14 years...do you opt for that long term dedication ? What approximately once you bypass off to college or circulate out ?

Answer 7

How do you treat/look after your dalmatian? Maybe your Mom doesn't think you're responsible enough to take care of a dog on your own.

Answer 8

wait until you are living on your own and then get the yappy dog if you love your mom you wouldn't want to subject her to the yipping show some respect and wait

Answer 9

i don't know why you guys can't have two dogs...
i have three at my house.
and having two completely different size of dogs can be fun.
they act differently too.
so just convince your mom to have two dogs.

Answer 10

Do not get them. They are crude. I have had 4 of them and I have finally learned to stop getting them. And they do not live that long. They are cute, but they have a tendency to bite, run after tires(thus getting run over), and having health problems.

I do love them though!!!