I found out that my girlfriend was cheating on me with her ex boyfriend. I wasn't thinking but I I told him that he had better back off, he said " Or what?" I told him that I was going to kick his ***. I don't know what I got myself into because this guy is a black belt in karate and told me that he would fight me tomorrow, no weapons just hand to hand. I said okay, you're dead. I am actually really scared because I know this dude could chew me up and spit me out. If I cancel the fight, he will think I am a coward. What should I do? I don't want to get hurt, I was just running my mouth.
2007-09-03 17:37:00 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Martial Arts
Yeah, first move needs to be forget about the girl. She's obviously bad news, and TOTALLY undeserving of a guy who would fight for her. Move on, find somebody worth taking a beat over.
Your more immediate problem though, get him to the ground and try to choke him out. Get your legs around his midsection and lock onto his throat and don't let go until he goes limp or somebody physically pries you off him.
Keep in mind that he's a striker, so know going in that you're going to get hit. It's inevitable and it'll hurt, but rush past it, get inside his striking range and get him to the ground as quickly as possible. Also, I'd advise you to do this in a well populated area so it can be broken up soon after it starts. That way you stand less chance of getting knocked in the head more that a couple of times AND there's less chance of you seriously hurting him (which, if you hurt him badly enough, can land you in trouble with the law).
Good luck.
2007-09-04 03:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Shane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How the heck does someone get a black belt in 2 years? Even though you may fight him, you realise you'll have rules and limitations. Martial arts have breaks, head kicks, etc, real moves to win. What you'll be doing is sport, so it won't be a true representation of a street fight. That said if he's any good he should be able to win anyway. From my experience with TKW if head strikes are allowed he could go in for an instant knockout. Martial arts would beat the average street fighter most days. Even if you take him to the ground, and he doesn't know what to do, then it just becomes two amatuers on the ground, people here fail to realise you don't actually have an advantage.
2016-05-20 23:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you already have plenty of advice. Here's my two cents worth.
First, don't blame just one, their both at falt, dump the chick. If she really want to be with you the cheating will stop. Second, just because he's a black belt don't mean crap. A black belt dosen't mean a thing in a fight. All that says is that he knows kata and maybe can point fight. If you decide to go through with the fight all I can say is don't be fair. A real fight is just that a fight. poke eyes, kick groin, bite, pull hair ---- there is no such thing as a fair fight or cheating in a real fight. Anyone who claims that sorta thing is cheating, or a girls way of fighting hasn't been in too many real fights. If I fight it's to win, regardless.
2007-09-04 03:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by Zenshin Academy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol....dude?
First of all, grow up. Why are you even thinking about physically fighting someone over a girlfriend who cheated on you. Count your blessings that you found out, walk away and find someone who really cares about you and will be faithful if that's what you are seeking. Fighting is not going to bring her back, and if it does, she really is not worth the effort!
Secondly, we all run our mouths every now and again. Be a real man about it and tell the dude. "I was pissed and I took it out on you. I was wrong. Sorry. You didn't do anything wrong and I don't want to fight with you over this." If he's truly a black belt, he'll be happy to hear this and he'll accept your apology.
If it comes down to a fight and you can't avoid it at all I'd suggest trying to wrap him up and get on the ground really close to him and just hope you don't get too hurt too much before he gets bored or someone else breaks up the fight.
Ken C
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2007-09-06 18:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ken C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's the harm in acting like an adult and actually backing away from a fight that you know you shouldn't take part in? I say back down. Who cares if he thinks your a coward? He's the guy that has to deal with a cheating girl now. He's got bigger problems than you do.
Life has shown me, fortunately through friends and not personal experience with girlfriends, that cheaters are consistently showing their true colors. She'll cheat on him. Sit back and laugh about that instead of fighting someone over a girl that, for as much as it may hurt to realize, doesn't love you anymore.
Good luck and keep on keepin' on!
2007-09-04 02:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a one on one gentelmany fight you should take him to the ground and pound away, watch out though, if he plays or trys to play dirty all bets are off, hit his balls hit his throat gouge the eyes, thats if you want to fight
What you should do first is try to get out of it, here is what I would do, call up my ex and say "wow, your boyfriend is so obsessed with you that he wants to fight me like a nianderfal but I thought about it and there is no way I would fight over you tomorrow, tell him the fight is off unless he calls me up and tells me he has a problem with me personaly"
If he calls you up you should fight, i would fight, but you dont want to be fighting over a girl
I know from expereince of being that ex boyfriend, that alot of the time when a relationship ends the girls are so emotionaly damaged that they will find any guy they can as soon as possible even if they are not really into them because inside they are still longing to be with the ex, if you show you dont give a ****, and things dont work out with the ex she will probably see the light and come back to you
2007-09-04 01:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem started with no thought but action, don't finish it by doing the same. Consider your real options, like where your life is headed with these kinda issues in it.
Get right about your Girl, one way or the other.
Go to this Black Belt and give him the chance to have one of the highest levels of understanding at a Black belt level, called Compassion and Understanding. A good Black Belt will not lose all the values associated with that Level over Trivial things. If he still wants a fight, it is inevitable you handle him legally. The loss of the girl is her choice, not his. He has his own choices as do you.
2007-09-04 06:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"Never fear another challenger no matter how large;
Never fear another challenger no matter how small."
Now that'd be the day when we get world peace yeah?
Yeah, you know, I did that sort of thing once, getting myself into some stupid fight, boasting strength etc. You know what I did? Put on a brave, no nonsense/non caring face, told him that I'd meet him after school, one on one, and have the fight then. When I got there, before he did, sat down and waited.
He came up, and I demanded whether or not we were gonna fight, putting up an image of a 'ready to play' strong guy. ( although I was shaking inside) I looked him dead in the eye, asked him again. We didn't fight.
We went home, giving each other a pat on the back. Next day we became chums. Next day after that, I heard he was a phyco in a fight, and that he'd beat anyone in a fight.....(lucky)
Anyways what do you want to do? If you get into a fight, my advice...either run away laughing, telling him "violence is the first resort of a simple mind" or GO INSANE! Normal people don't people don't expect to get into a fight with a samurai do they? (Samurai went desperate(insane) in battle, slaying, with no thought of his/her own health)
Besides, black belt, psh. I spit on thy black belt. It's just physical ornamentation, and, even if you do get beaten up, just get back up and smile, nothing get's at your enemies more.(uh....but if he's gonna like, you know kill you, well not that he will, but I'm sure you can beat him, if not physically, get him with reason and logic yeah) It'll get you the worlds support, and he probably won't be able to fight like that yeah)
Hey you know what you could do, not show up at the fight, saying the next day that you couldn't be ****** turning up and then demand to fight him then and there, instead of delaying. Then plan A would work eh?
2007-09-04 01:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rokunin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a fool if you show up and fight this guy. You were a fool for shooting your mouth off in the first place.
If I were you I would apologize to the guy, tell him you don't wish to fight. And also tell him that if he would like to have a girl that cheats he can have her.
If he attacks you, run away.
A fight is a willing physical clash of two or more egos. As long as you don't choose, you don't have to fight.
If you try to not fight and get attacked , then it is a self-defense situation.
Find out what school this guy goes to. If he attacks you without cause and you report him to his teacher he should get into trouble.
If you really want to get his goat, go join his school.
He would be foolish to beat up a brother in training.
Good luck!
2007-09-04 05:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by spidertiger440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the girl..NOW!!!!!!! don't waist your life in a committed relationships, people simply aren't worth the time.
secondly, accept the fight. it is time to grow up and learn something about yourself. even if you get your *** kicked you will learn from this.
i respect how you challenged him, that takes big balls and as far as i am concerned you can't back-out now, if you do your a p@#$y.
show some self respect and defend your honor. you will fill better about yourself, even if beats the crap out of you.
i am a fighter myself and i wish i could be there in your corner to help you through this. i would suggest that you wrestle him to the ground. most karate practitioners are not as good when they are off their feet.
once he is on the ground sit on top of him and pound him in the face. if HE is on the attack and you cant get him to the ground protect your head and circle away from him however the moment he lets up throw several of your own punches(never throw just a single punch) when you are throwing punches throw 3 or 4 at a time.
look man, good luck like i said i wish i could be there to help you. don't be a scared punk and back out. and when it is all over with join a gym and learn to fight.
2007-09-03 18:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by "GoSANE" 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋