my grandpa just passed away 2 days ago, how do i over come this?

Question

how can i be not sad any more?

Answer 1

You will always have some sadness in you over this loss but over time it lessens more. It just happened so youre going to feel bad for awhile, maybe months. Try to keep busy and if you feel too sad write how you feel on paper and save it so when your old you can remember him good.

Answer 2

The feelings that your having right now are 100% normal. I lost my Dad when I was 15. It's been almost 3 years and my Grandma 1 year ago, and I still find myself thinking about it and sometimes randomly depressed or crying. In a few months or so the pain will start to dull a tiny bit, but I cant say for sure, but I do know that you will always have the pain of loosing him. Everyone's grieving processes are different. Something you may think is incredibly strange is compleatly normal. Feeling sad and depressed is normal, and your family members are probably feeling almost the same as you, so I would suggest you talk to them about how they are feeling, and support them in coming to you for support when they need it, just like you will have them and your friends as your support system. Also, try starting a support group at your school for people who have lost loved ones. I did, and after 2 1/2 years it is still going strong, and growing every year. I'm proud that I am able to help others with their grief while they help me with mine. So talk to your school counsler and set up a meeting. I promise it will help.

Answer 3

You are going to be sad for a while. If you were not sad, it would mean that your relationship with your grandpa wasn't important, and obviously it was.
Think about all the good things and funny things about your grandpa, Get back to your normal routine (school, etc) as soon as you are able. Talk about him with people who care. In time, your grief will fade and you will remember how much he meant to you.

Answer 4

I am 52 years old My grandpa died when twenty years ago when I was 32. My father 30 years ago when I was 22, he was only 47. I still get sad whenever I think of them.
Its not easy, but its ok to be sad, its part of the grieving prosess. One thing to do is see if you can get something that was your grandfathers. I have my Gramps chair, and his grandfather clock. it helps me to remember the things he loved.

One thing that is good to do is talk to your mother of father (what ever one is the son or daughter of this grandpa) ask them questions about Grandpa, what was he like when he was much younger. ask your parents what they did that got them into trouble by grandpa.I have little things to give my own granddaughter so she has a idea who her great grand father was. use this time to work on how you would like to remember your grandfather, how to pass on his history to others.

your pain is very real, getting over it is hard. but it can be joy in later life to remember the fun things you did with him.

Answer 5

You never will be not sad when you think of how much you would like to see him! Your heart hurts! But treasure your memories and the tears will become happy tears to think that you were able to share such a beautiful life with him! Thank God for him and Bless him, your grandfather.