Why did G-d make me gay?

Question

Now I'm secretly the lonliest person in the world with a horrible secret and will never live my life with someone I can really love.

To anyone that said I chose it- NO I did NOT. Why the f*ck would anyone CHOOSE to be gay and be subjected to whatever gay people have to go through? I remember liking men when I wasa young kid, I most definitely did not choose it. Same goes for anyone saying it's because of a sin..I doubt I'm gay because I I colored on the wall when I was 3. :/

Answer 1

He didn't.

Answer 2

I understand, emphasize, and agree with you 100%. However I do not believe that God made you this way. I believe in reincarnation and therefore karma. It may well be that you are here to learn the lessons that being gay has to teach you. You need not live with this as a secret, or remain alone. Whatever other people think should have no influence over you. People will find reasons to gossip about you anyway, that's just how we are. I know there are churches that welcome those who are gay. I'm also aware how difficult it is to come out of the closet. However I think if you do this and find groups of gay people, you will find the support you need. Also, you have a friend right here. Write me if you want.
Blessed Be and may Peace be with you
btw, if I could be a lesbian, I would be, however it is not a choice I can make. I know being gay is not a choice.

Answer 3

We are all different in one way of another. That is what makes the world more interesting and fun.
Why are you lonely? I know many gay men who are very happy and have loving relationships.
Are you in the closet?
Just be you and live your life to the fullest!
I hope you find happiness.

Okay after I answered this question I actually started reading some of the other answers and WOW, there are A LOT of F*CKED up people out there!!!!
Why does everyone ASSUME God is a man? and why would anyone believe all that horse sh!t in the bible?
Come on people! How can you be so stupid and naive to believe that Cr@p?
I would never believe in a god that the Bible depicts.

Answer 4

I think that it was the environment that you grew up in. BUt serieosly i also think that you are afraid to change what you have know your whole life. Don't become an evil person.
Being Gay is a decies of the mind. So if you go to a phyciatrist then you may get some help. I will pray that you can get through this and be ok.
If you think that i stinks that bad then try to get to know some really good girls. Girls who would be able to love you as a normal person. Really, it might help. Who knows, you may become attrackted to one of them!
God Bless you always!

Answer 5

You did not make yourself gay huh? God did it?
What stupid self serving crap.
You are a sinner because you choose to sin. It doesn't matter what sin it is.
Tell me are you also guilty of adultery or how about fornication?
Don't blame your stupidity on a God you know little or nothing about.
He said don't eat pig it is unclean. Meaning it isn't good for your body it's unhealthy.
I'm sure He had the same thing in mind about poking your self into your buddies butt. Don't do it it isn't healthy.
Try giving some of that lust you call love for Jesus and these problems may fade away.
Or stay on your path and burn. Your choice but what you want is much more important than what the Creator of the universe says. I hope to God you never find true love in this fashion.

Answer 6

God did not make you gay. You yourself choose to be gay because you believed a lie. The fact that you admitted you like guys when younger was a target for yourself going gay. You can choose to be lonely and be on the devils side or you can choose God and be set free and not be lonely. In the beginning God created man and women to sleep with each other as bed partners. In God's Word He tells us man is not to lay with man and women is not to lay with women so here is proff that God had nothing to do with anyone who is gay. You will not only be lonely the rest of your life but you will always be miserable. Turn to God while you still have breath.
It might be a secret to man but it is not a secret to God what you are doing as a gay person. God sent His Son Jesus Christ to die for this sin. Just because God loves you does not make it ok either to be gay. Homosexuality if a sin and sin cannot enter Heaven. You will be in my prayers for God to deliver you out of this lifestyle. But it will only work if you choose to give this lifestyle up and turn to God to receive His Salvation.

Answer 7

God didn't make you gay. Why would He do that? He wants everybody to have everlasting life. God wouldn't make it harder for you to do the right things, but Satan will. Everybody has weaknesses and Satan knows all the tricks. Satan has been testing humans for thousands of years, and he isn't about to stop. Some of us can't handle a day without nicotine, for some others it's liquor. The only sin that is unforgivable is knowing the truth about God, turning away and leading others astray, a la Satan. I can imagine your loneliness, fear of rejection, feeling depressed and oppressed. Some others here have suggested therapy, and it's probably a good idea. In the meantime, you can pray for the strength to resist your temptations and for forgiveness. And, pray for the strength to forgive yourself. You sound like you're beating yourself up.

Answer 8

hey Shorty,

first off, you are what you are, and I understand that. I'm not gay, but whatever it is about me, i'm pretty much alone all the time, I have friends, apart from some woman who married me and ran off, i don't have a significant other in any form though I talk about a girl friend, she is pretty much estranged from me.

First off, the bible says we are God's workmanship. if you are attracted to men then you are attracted to them and don't get hung up on all the tripe about nature, no god or that other stuff, you are attracted to me, point blank, end of statement.

that you even acknowledge God is there is a big step. God made us, and wants a relationship with us.

While I don't have a big secret, and the skeletons in my closet are small, we all have something we are ashamed of. You are no different.

You can languish in misery or you can turn to Jesus and take those questions strait to him. Don't BS around either, be specific be point blank and ask, why did you make me this way.

I have struggled with lonliness for eons. most of my adult life I was in the reserves and when ever I would start to have some glimmer of happiness, I would deploy. Since the towers fell that is all I have done is go to exotic places, meet interesting people and work to help them.

I understand your pain, but I'm not going to tell you i live that pain. similar but different. (ya I did the website dating stuff but nothing but game players on there, for the most part)

I am thinking you have already accepted Jesus in your heart. Is that correct. If so, you have the full and total conditional right to go boldly to the throne of grace and ask God what he is doing in your life.

I would like to be very specific in some thoughts that I go to him with, but this is not the place to air laundry. You know what i'm talking about. Take those issue there and ask him to give you an answer. He promises to walk with us in our affliction.....ask him to do this now and to heal your heart

it really hurts to carry this burden. I know, in ways until we meet in heaven you will not know how much we share the same level of pain

I wish you the best, you can email me if you want

Answer 9

I don't believe that God made you gay. When did you discover that you were gay? Surely you weren't born that way....what tendencies do gay babies possess? So how can you say that God made you that way?

Environments and situations in life have an impact on who we are and who we might become....along with personal choices. Myabe you're not gay, have you thought about perhaps talking to someone objective to help you sort out your feelings?

I wish you the best, I really do.

Answer 10

Being gay doesn't mean you will never live your life with someone you can really love. Not loving and accepting yourself is the only thing that can cause that to happen. I know several very committed gay couples that are very much in love.

As for why he created you to be gay I would have to say because it was completely natural if not what we consider the norm. Love is love no matter what package it comes in.

Answer 11

God made you the person he wanted you to be. If that means you're gay, then so be it. Make it something that can expand your views and help other people who are struggling with the same things you are struggling with now. I had the exact same feelings when I came out when I was 13. I felt alone and that I had this horrible problem. The truth is that you don't have to see it as being a problem.

Being gay is neither good nor bad. I'm gay and Catholic, and I firmly believe God created me to be the person I am today. He knew what experiences he wanted me to have. I don't know the reasons why things had to happen the way that they did, but that's not the point. The point is that you don't have to live a sullen, sad life because you're gay. Being gay is not a sentence of solitude. Sure it'll bring more challenges, but those will make you stronger and a better person.

As for finding a partner, worry about finding one when you get to that point.