well, just a while ago my mom got in trouble with my sister because she took my binder without permission and i needed it, so i told my mom and they began to argue. i feel like its my fault. i now it was a stupid thing but i was so mad that she took my binder without asking me! i feel like i`m not acting as a good christian every time i get mad at my sister and start to argue. but i cant help it, i dont know what to do!
2007-09-03 14:37:31 · 30 answers · asked by me 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
yup, i know arguing about a binder is pretty stupid, but what made me mad is that she takes my stuff witrhout permission and doesnt like when someone else does that to her!
2007-09-03 14:49:49 · update #1
These are normal emotions for Christians and non-Christians alike. Just because we become Christian, doesn't mean that we're not still human. It is great that you are concerned about sin in your life and that you want to behave like Christ would want you to do. Sometimes we are more able to resist sin than at other times. When we sin, it's important to 1) recognize that we've sinned, 2) regret our sin, 3) ask for forgiveness, and 4) try to not do it anymore. This is all that God asks of us.
2007-09-03 15:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,not at all.She probably delights in raising your ire.Read James 1:2-8 and then Mark 10:17-31 and pray.The next time your sister takes something of yours,do not get angry.Tell her it is your favorite or it is dear to you,but that you would rather she have it than to fight over it ,or view her as a thief.Bickering is neverending.Love and compassion for a bad seed is something you can feel very good about.There are black sheeps in all families.Usually it is just a kid thing that is outgrown.But you can make a difference in your sister's life by showing her that material items mean nothing to a Christian.Bless you.It is refreshing to hear from a true Christian here.And I'm sorry for the deluded pagan answers others have given you.This place is riddled with non-Christians.
2007-09-04 01:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel bad then tell your Mom and your Sister that you feel bad and your sorry.
Is what you did a Sin? Well according to the bible everything we do is a sin.
Were human we make mistakes we get mad. Some people have more of a temper than others. You sound like a decent person I wouldnt worry about it wipe your feet and go on with your day.
Also tell them why you got mad.. (In a nice way)
2007-09-03 21:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by PlanetMercury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a bad Christian (or person) for feeling that way. As long as you were honest and told your mom that you needed your binder and your sister had used it without asking, the rest is up to your mom and sis. If you feel like you've done something wrong, pray about it and then explain things to your mom and sister. It will lead you to the right answer, and make them understand at the same time. I bet praying will make you feel better as well!
2007-09-03 21:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Apples&Broccoli 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everybody gets mad at thier siblings every once in a while. it's called being human. :] being christian isn't about being perfect all the time and always doing what's right. it's about trusting in god and trying to do his will. just because you got angry at your sister that doesn't mean that you're a bad christian. you shouldn't feel guilty about getting angry at your sister for that kind of thing. she really just shouldn't have stolen your binder in the first place. i know it can be hard when you're mad at the people you love, but it's okay to be mad at them for the right reasons.
2007-09-03 21:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being a bad Christian. It was wrong of her to take your binder; you told your mom and she punished her. Even us Christians loose our patience some times. When I was growing up my sister and I fought like cats and dogs. She is a really pushy in-your-face type of person who would intentionally do things to upset me. I'm a pretty quiet person who can't stand being bossed around and having my things borrowed without my permission. I've never heard of any Bible passage that says that siblings must never fight or get angry at each other.
2007-09-03 21:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually if they took without your permission, then you have a right to complain. But maybe next time, try to find other ways to compliment. If you have spare change, buy some extra ones, and then pass one over to your sister. She might do the same in the future!
2007-09-03 21:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Da Mick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't being a bad Christian just because you argue with your sister. You are siblings you are going to argue. My two girls argue almost nonstop but when it comes down to it they have each others back. They can do what ever they want to each other but if someone else tries to mess with one of them they are there sticking up for each other. It is just the way it works.
2007-09-03 21:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all make mistakes everyday, ask the Lord to forgive you and go on. Try not to keep making the same mistakes over and over.Thats when the Lord begins to wonder if you are truly repenting when you ask for forgiveness. You are definitely not a bad Christian or you wouldn't be here admitting your mistakes. I believe that is one of the signs of a mature christian is saying hay I made a mistake. May God Bless YOU!!!
2007-09-03 21:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by victor 7707 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're just being the human being you are. That does not break any rules on what and what not to do as a Xtian. You didn't do anything wrong, you're just acting on your own personality which God has given you. You didn't like what your sister did and that's okay. Breaking xtian morals only comes in when one goes beyond their anger and actually commit sin i.e. backstab, steal, you know those things.
So don't worry. It's ok.
-God Bless-
2007-09-03 21:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by K-hunii 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋