so lastnight, me and my girl we're suppose to hang out with this guy im talking to and his friend.
my girl says she doesn't want to hang out with them bcuz some ballas invited me and her to VIP @ this club. I call the guy im talking to and let him know my girl cant hang out but im still willing to hang out with him, instead iof going to the club. he says no that he can't just bring me without his friend having somegirl to hang out with.. i told him wow thats how much you like me?!?!? he says bye..
so me and my girl go to VIP with the ballas....
3 hrs later he sends me a txt saying come hang out with me?
i told txted him back saying IM NOONE 2ND OPTION.. and today he has not called me all day ??
should i call him ??
2007-09-03 13:22:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, if he wanted to be with you he would be with you. I agree with your first reaction, don't be anyone's second option!!!
2007-09-03 13:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by jimstock60 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you just told him that you were no ones 2nd option.... if I were him I would not call you if you left such a bitc** answer. how would you feel if you were his friend and you were the 3rd wheel? You know you would not like that so you can't expect him to be cool with that.
If you really like him, call him. You should have just said "Okay I'll catch you later", when he said that he didn't want to hang out if your girl couldn't make it. He may think you have too much drama. I did when I read the problem.
2007-09-03 20:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by monkeysgirl247 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you shouldn't call him. He's obviously some kind of player. He didn't want to hang with you when your girl wanted to go to the VIP deal. He prolley just texted you the other night because he was bored and had nothing to do. Forget him, honey! You deserve better!
2007-09-03 20:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be that he felt like he would look dumb in front of his friend. Text him or call him and tell him why you said what you said. Some guys and girls need it spelled out. After if he does not understand or does not care then say bye bye to him and Hello Ballaz!!!
2007-09-03 20:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! He waited till he was intoxicated to txt you right? Find a guy who likes you all the time!
2007-09-03 20:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by headtronz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you did the right thing. You should move on from here and find someone who puts you first. Good comeback by the way.
2007-09-03 20:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt. If you stood up for yourself and told him that you are no 2nd opition. Dont back down.
2007-09-03 20:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont he was being a jerk in the first place so its his loss he was being childish and selfish
2007-09-03 20:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by martina s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why bother??? he has made it clear where his priorities lie why do you think it will be any different later???
2007-09-03 20:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so...its obvious hes not dying to see you...
2007-09-03 20:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋