Well A friend of mine died a sad death in real life. And I miss her very much. And then i had my first dream about her.
In my First dream i was going to be somewhere but then i relized it was the same day she was going to die and i was running and trying to stop her from dieing and i was telling somebody to stop her and nobody did anything! and i kept running and screaming after her to stop and i was crying a little. She died a sad death and Then i woke up.
The second dream was last night..I was in class or something like that and then i got the news about her death and i started to go crazy! and started to break things and yelling and screaming while i was crying and i felt so sad. It was so real.
Am i having these dreams because i didn't grieve before???
Somebody HELP ME! I'm only 14!!! and it's starting to me me depressed.
2007-09-03 11:36:23 · 6 answers · asked by James Dean Girl <3 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
When we keep our feelings hidden and do not express them they will surface in our dreams. It is not healthy to keep your feelings hidden or bottled up inside they need to be released in order for us to understand them its the only way we'll mature. The dream also expresses that you were close to her and wished that you could do something to stop her from dying. The best thing to do is keep the good times in your heart and let yourself feel ,let go, and cry.
2007-09-03 12:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Dreamcrowd:
To dream that you die in your dream, symbolizes inner changes, transformation, self-discovery and positive development that is happening within you or in your life. Although such a dreams may bring about feelings of fear and anxiety, it is no cause for alarm and is often considered a positive symbol. Dreams of experiencing your own death usually means that big changes are ahead for you. You are moving on to new beginnings and leaving the past behind. These changes does not necessarily imply a negative turn of events. Metaphorically, dying can be seen as an end or a termination to your old ways and habits. So, dying does not always mean a physical death, but an ending of something. On a negative note, to dream that you die may represent involvement in deeply painful relationships or unhealthy, destructive behaviors. You may feeling depressed or feel strangled by a situation or person in your waking life. Perhaps your mind is preoccupied with someone who is terminally ill or dying. Alternatively, you may be trying to get out of some obligation, responsibility or other situation. To see someone dying in your dream, signifies that your feelings for that person are dead or that a significant change/loss is occurring in your relationship with that person. Alternatively, you may want to repress that aspect of yourself that is represented by the dying person.
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2007-09-08 22:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its grief. going through the death of a close friend is always painful, and being just 14 years old, i really feel bad for you. eventually you may have dreams with her talking to you. they are real, it happens to me. maybe you could talk to a grief counselor, or close friends may help. i think yahoo answers help as well. i have twin daughter age 15. they had a friend that died from a drunk driver. seeing the pain they endured was almost to much to take. i hung on because my daughters are my life. hang in there and keep rockin.
2007-09-11 08:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because you miss her you have these dreams. Now, after her death you can be near her within these dreams, you try to help her. I think that nobody can really help you. It is within your own will to try to accept her death and to realize that you are only dreaming. It's time to move on and you have to tell your self that.
2007-09-11 17:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by Pishkotzel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I think you wish you could have stopped her from dying. (1st dream) And you are very upset and angry that she is gone. (2nd dream) It's just reflecting your emotions about the situation.
2007-09-03 18:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be ok...there are 5 stages of the grieving process, and you are working through them, your dreams reflect the various stages as you encounter them...the 5 stages are denial, bargaining, anger, depression, and acceptance. Sounds like you have entered the anger stage of it....You are working through it....good luck.... And please accept my condolences...
2007-09-03 19:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋