My husband and I moved to Tucson at the end of 2003. My parents lived here and I wanted to be closer. When we moved here we were all going to live in the same house together until we all get on our feet. Well that did not go as planned. My parents ended up taking our tax return and making eveything their own. We had to put our things in storage. My mom was never this stingie when we lived in Oklahoma. Now all she talks about is money. She is used us. How do I trust her again? Why did she do this to us? All we wanted to do was start fresh like them and they took advantage of us.
2007-09-03 10:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by ktdmama3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How does one take any person's tax return? How do you trust anyone especially parents when they do something like this. That sacred bond between parent and child has been broken...at this point it will be hard to get over this. Plus, I think you already know that things will probably continue to get worse. It will have to be you to make the next move...that being to actually moved back out on your own...somehow. Good Luck
2007-09-03 10:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kiwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are in the attitude of DEPRIVATION. They moved into a more expensive part of the country and discovered that after the fact, so their money is not going as far. No matter how much they have and how much they can take from you, it will never be enough.
When you moved in, you did not take steps to safeguard your money. In short, you got railroaded. They probably intended to do this all along.
No, you cannot trust them if they have a way to control you and get into your pockets.
All you can do is get to work, drag in any paychecks you can and BANK them, and move out ASAP. When you get a benk account, make sure you have your statements hitting a PO Box instead of coming to the parents' house.
Try looking to move to a cheaper neighborhood like in Mesa. Start with a small garage apartment and build up.
Just get out of there.
2007-09-03 18:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesnt want you to leave so she is making sure it will be hard.
Find ways to save up without her knowing. There should be no reason that you cant save up enough to live on your own.
Maybe too you do not understand how much you are costing your parents by living there. You do have an obligation to pay room and board. Are you doing this freely? Are you giving them enough? MAybe it is you that is being the stingie one???
2007-09-03 17:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Esperenza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your husband and move out. Just buy an apartment somewhere at least 2 hours away from them. Leave a note saying why you are doing that. Talk to some close friends about it. They should be able to help you more.
2007-09-03 17:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by gracie_thunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they want you to grow up. Maybe they want you to be self-sufficient, maybe they are not nice, maybe you shouldn't be around them. Who knows, What did you do? did you help them? pay rent?. or did you just want to move in and live for free? what really happened, did you owe them money? Ask yourself this questions, and then go on with your life, show them you can make it on your own, without their help.
2007-09-03 17:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by Roberto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people are selfish..maybe there jealous of u an money she's money hungry get away fast
2007-09-03 17:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by Drippn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋