I'm really jealous of my girlfriend. She thinks it's ok to dance with other guys, while I think that she shouldn't dance with other guys because I don't dance with other girls, even if they ask me. I mean, how would she feel if I started to get my freak on with some other girls? That's why I don't dance with other girls, while she thinks its fine. I feel really jealous and just want to get back at her, but I know its not the right thing. I'm easily jealous, and kinda consider dancing close to like holding hands. I jsut don't like the thought of some guy getting close with my girlfriend. I did try to get back at her, and I had to end it because the girl I was flirting with started to get feelings for me, and I didn't want to actually cheat on her. How can I deal with this feeling?
2007-09-03 07:08:13 · 6 answers · asked by Stanski 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her, tell her how your feeling.
2007-09-11 06:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately the key to this lies in you. It is not your girlfriends issue if you are jealous, it is yours.
It's a form of insecurity. Maybe you're afraid you'll lose her to one of the guys she dances with. I don't really know, but I do know that if you don't get over it and trust her, you WILL lose her.
Sorry to be so blunt, but most girls aren't going to stick around with some crazy jealous boyfriend trying to tell them what to do. Either find a girl who feels the same way about dancing as you do, or learn to deal with it.
By the way, i don't think there is anything wrong with not wanting to dance with other women. I see your side of it too, but I don't think that dancing with other people (for a guy or a girl) is wrong either. It's all about the intention.
Good luck and I hope you're able to work through this.
2007-09-09 14:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by deanna4273 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to explain to her how she is hurting you inside and tell her that you just cant deal with it anymore. Dont hide your feelings from her.
2007-09-11 06:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by iloveyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember this jealousy is not love. that is one thing that can rear its ugly head and its not good. if you dnt' trust someone that much and you are jealous then its not real. take care.
2007-09-10 13:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel. express your feelings.
2007-09-11 06:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD, your suppose to be like that...
Tell her to stop...
2007-09-10 08:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋