Why cant ladies manage attention?

Question

Why is it that most ladies cant manage when they are being given attention by men, they tend to let it get into their head and start mis-behaving to the man tht has always been there for them, Little do they know that the same man that pays u so much compliment probably says the same thing to every gurl that he has an opportunity to talk to. Gurls should learn to manage attention from men, If you as a lady let attentions and sweet talks from sweet-tongued men let you lose your man, he may never be there when u u realise how careless and unwise you have been...Learn from my mistakes. Send this to every one on your list...you could be saving a relationship...Stay alive and sensitive

Answer 1

I manage myself very well. I don't allow compliments from ANY human being to regulate my words, choices, feelings, or decisions. And I grew up without a father. I think it is somewhat sophomoric of you to assume that all women are this way.

Answer 2

This is a good suggestion to the man in her life: Pay more attention to her, and give her compliments when you see that she has taken pains with her dressing and hair in order to go out with you. (Those 'players' know she likes attention and is perhaps slightly neglected by the man in her life.)

Don't criticise her or tell her what to do, unless she asks for your opinion or help. And don't fuss over small details. She has a brain of her own and will do things her own way, the way she sees best.

Answer 3

That's a generalisation. Yes, some girls stray if they get a lot of attention from another man, but many wouldn't. Plus, what about all the men who cheat on their girlfriends/wives because they're getting attention from some girl?

Answer 4

Not the case for all of us. Maybe for those that don't get enough attention it is. I, on the other hand have heard every stupid line out there and therefore have become numb to it. It takes more than words for this chick to be bated in any more.

Answer 5

Many women manage attention just fine...if a guy you're dating is giving his to someone else, that's his bad. He needs to make it clear there's an issue in the relationship before he goes making "friends" with other chicks.

Answer 6

women are extemely susceptable to kind words and attention and men are EXTREMELY SUSCEPTABLE to physical advances from females, The less self assured we feel the more vulnerable we are.I am 56 and am not flirtatious but find my dr's and such, men who are kind to me by profession, I am attracted to them and think they like me and my friends say Wendy that dr is so ugly etc. But I am so so needy for a man to be nice to me that I can't see the forest for the trees and men have the ability to seduce women with attention and women have the ability to seduce men with physical things that turn up there sex engine so ?????

Answer 7

A man who gives the same old worn out line to every girl is nothing but a playa. And I don't need or want attention from his loser butt. End of story.

Answer 8

All I have to say to this is that I am totally opposite of the ladies you are referring to.....I dont pay any attention to compliment....I assure you that ignoring it is as bad as over doing it....It is aggravating to me when my BF tells me I look hot in the morning it p**ses me off. I am not in the mood for the crap most of the time....I hate it....

Answer 9

Wow I guess someone burned you. In my opinion so many young women todat grew up without father's and theya re always seeking that attention from men they lacked at children....

Answer 10

challenging aspect. lookup at search engines like google. just that might help!