What would you call somebody like this?

Question

- smokes pot daily
- lives with his mother at 29 years old
- has never had a real relationship with a woman
- calls himself anti-social
- is super shy
- is super sensitive
- has only had sex with one person but that person broke it off w/ him for obvious reasons
- is wrapped up in online games
- calls himself fat and ugly and openly admits he has no self-esteem or confidence
- says he has fallen in love with a girl from one of those online games and she lives 3,000 miles away (she is flying out to see him) as she says she has fallen in love with him to - this is after 1 month or so they were saying this
- has no dreams
- only a highschool education

what do you call somebody like this?
and could somebody like this become obsessive?

I did try to help him get out of this life. I showed him a loving relationship, asked him to go out all the time, complimented the good things about him, told him that most online love things don't work out, offered to take him away for a trip, asked him to plays, etc....

I tried to help but he just seems so freaking LOST and I'm just worried that if this "online" thing doesn't work out he'll try to come back and I don't want him to....I want him to seek therapy!!!!

Answer 1

A loser big time and a big waste for the human society.

Answer 2

I dont know what would i call this person, but for sure i feel sorry for him and would help him get out of that kind of life.