2007-09-03 03:21:20 · 14 answers · asked by Mel 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
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learn to unload your years of emotional baggage. Learn to talk with your inner self and nothing outside yourself will ever make you unhappy. It really does become a choice.
2007-09-03 03:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uplifting words - like tomorrow is another day or this day too shall pass? Or take strength from those around you and remember that what is in the past is in the past, the future is still to be written. I have survived a great deal outside of the norm in my life and I can tell you that with patience, determination, strength and the support of people around you when you run low on the three things just mentioned, you can accomplish or make it through a great deal. Also, it's what you bring with you out of a rough time (what you learn and how you let it change you) that either makes you stronger or not. Everyone falls in a hole in life once in awhile, but it's how you let it change you as a person when you crawl over the edge of that hole that counts. One last thing, look around you for support, you can find it sometimes in very odd places.
2007-09-03 10:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In times of difficulty don't ever say "Oh god i have a BIG PROBLEM" instead say"hey problem, i have a BIG GOD"each and every second keeps changing.life is full of ups and downs and if you can't face these small events then how will u face your whole life?.life means missing expected things and facing unexpected things.every thing which is faced cannot be changed but nothing can be changed until it is faced.there is nothing permanent except change.never blame a day.good days gives happiness.bad days gives experience.rise your confidence level by reading good books and articles.if not try gardening or painting.life is to live.divert your mind.develop your skills and talents by doing it continuously.good luck dude.
2007-09-03 12:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by heparin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mel. Sending positive thoughts your way as I type!! Just hang in there mate. From experience I can say that life can really suck at times. I have battled back from the depths, seeing both of my parents die with terrible illnesses, having my father crippled in a car accident a few years before his passing, and having a major health scare myself.
I got through by having a stubborn, pig headed refusal to let life get me down. Things will get better...just ride it out at the moment, and then look back with pride when you come out of a bad period unscathed!
Sincere best wishes, and good luck.
2007-09-03 12:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by robin_peel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all
U R A Lucky girl, cuz God take exam of those, he love more..
Forget the pass, live in present hope for future,
I just say that "IF U THINK U CAN,U CAN
IF U THINK U CAN'T U R RIGHT".....
so blive upon U and start again. Life i one time experince, Wise people learn abt past ans succed in future.
One more thing.... Life is Try,Try again Formula.
LOVE U & HOPE ALL BETTER & HAPPY LIFE For U.
2007-09-03 10:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by DON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing what's going on, it's hard to know what words might help you. But, words from Jesus always help me:
"Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you'll recover your life. I'll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won't lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you'll learn to live freely and lightly."
Hope this helps. Sorry you are feeling so bad.
2007-09-03 10:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by cowabunga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mel............why are you having such a horrible life? Seriously. I believe that every blow that doesn't kill, strengthens me........do you? Are you in physical danger or in emotional distress? Do you have someone to chat with.............to just unload your feelings? Are you preparing for a BETTER life, by doing all you can do to GET to that BETTER spot in your life? Is someone holding you down? Are you horribly ill? What do you think makes your life horrible, Mel? If you can realize what makes your life horrible, then, you can work at changing that. My love to you............and, really, Mel, ask yourself WHY your life is horrible.
2007-09-03 11:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by laurel g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"When I hear somebody sigh
LIfe is life,with good and bad.You just remember that you are not alone.Hang in there.... salvation is on it's way.God loves you!
2007-09-05 01:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by sufletsenin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet tis the promise"i ll not foget or leave thee"the lord jesus' words . the lord knows what you are going through just call upon his name ,because right now He has lifted you 'you are not alone
2007-09-03 10:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Rency 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever happens, happens. whatever happens again, happens again. whatever happens that causes something else to happen, happens...
there's no getting over it, only getting on with it
2007-09-03 10:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by thegrovesofdoubt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋