Grrr... I'm still looking for the special someone in my life. My intentions are the best. I'm in my 20's although I look about 19-20 and I'm saving myself for the right girl. Where would you suggest that I look to find someone my age (or a bit younger but legal) that is still saving herself too? I think since I am, its only fair to expect the same in her.
Don't tell me i'm unreasonable, even if I am I could never truly forgive someone that had their fun and then i'm sorta the one who saved it for no reason. I'm not in this for a moral debate, I'd just like to know where to look for others who think the way I do. It is very important to me. Thank you for the help.
2007-09-03 00:35:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jeez, not one person is going to answer me?
2007-09-03 00:44:28 · update #1
I think it is admirable you are saving yourself for someone special. It is fair to expect the same of a girl, however, you shouldn't close your eyes to someone who may just steal your heart, regardless of her past sexual experience. All girls aren't out there sleeping with every guy who walks by! It's difficult to pinpoint a place to find a girl, however, if you are looking to find someone whose chances are less they are sexually active, I would suggest a youth group, perhaps at a church. Also, look into Pro Life groups, if you are pro life. There are lots of young university girls who participate in these rallies with high moral values. But, then again, she may be working as a cashier at WALMART, or at the theatre...who knows. Times have changed. We don't walk around with a "V" on our foreheads :) Good Luck!
2007-09-11 00:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun, I think that it is great that you are saving yourself. It is also wonderful that you are looking for a girl that has the same values as you do. The problem with this is that in this world people tell one another that they are virgins an then find out that they have aids and other deseases that they didn't want anyone to find out about because then they can't get into the enjoyment. Just be super careful. Always protect yourself and your pride. Don't rush for God will allow this to happen at a certain time in your life and when he does Thank him from the bottom of your heart.
2007-09-10 23:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by dennis_belk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RARW....U2,I haven't found what or who I am looking for either in a special way, and I am here to rant on my complaint about what I want and don't have..
I want to look up in the air, think of higher and highest peeks
and not run into zeros but find me a hero. A person more like me who's sees more then a Mercedes, tagging along with friends avoiding the light not seeing the stars and moon light the right hero, someone like superman the hulk or even spider man..
Alright, cut the crap...............
2007-09-10 08:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is your view of life and no one would blame you for saving herself,i think it's really sweet!but i don't think that there are special places where people like u hang out..you should be open in making friends,go to different places,meet new people and you finally will find the one..but if you really fall for a girl who's very nice and she tells you that she has not saved herself??sometimes people make mistakes..you may think that your first one is the special girl 4which you were saving yourself but in the end turns out that you were wrong..think about it and good luck:)
2007-09-03 01:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by so..80's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know this sounds wrong but gosh, start circulating! If you do that you'll probably find the girl you want to be with for real, as long your in the right group of people! Good Luck!
2007-09-10 14:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kadie J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking for a sweet girl at a church youth group. Most of the time you can tell if a girl is promiscous by the way she carries herself and the way she dresses. good luck.
2007-09-10 19:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by emargooble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days, if your looking for virgins you better go check out the junior high, because that's the only place your going to find one.
2007-09-03 00:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check out the local youth groups at the churches in your town. there are plenty of young ladies out there just waiting to meet a guy like you!!!cudos!!!
2007-09-10 11:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unreasonable..
i think the girl you're looking for is going to be hard to find mate..
take a look at society..
2007-09-10 20:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u kno u cud make frnds (JUST FRNDS) wid gals and then probably u wud find a perfect gal
i say make frnds first and then u wud kno hu is the right girl 4 u
2007-09-03 00:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by sim 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋