what should i do ??
whenever we kiss i usually end up like i've been to the sea !
what do i say and make it not so offensive ?
2007-09-02 22:42:26 · 11 answers · asked by Lal P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
the saliva just happens to end up everywhere !
making out is not what i like to do with him any more !!
and i love him A LOT !
i did tell him the other day that i think he should do something about the SALIVA and after kissing me on my neck and shoulder he kinda wiped it with his hands ! which was really sweet !!
2007-09-02 22:55:14 · update #1
I have the same problem as you. I just quietly wipe my mouth when he's not looking. Perhaps try to explain to him in a sensitive way what you like in the way of kissing. However, in the heat of passion they seem to forget all 'training'! Lol.
2007-09-02 22:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by CelesteMoone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going to marry this guy,you should be telling him not the entire world. You think it's awkward telling him his kisses are sloppy. Try telling him you went on the Internet and asked strangers how to talk to your fiance about his sloppy kisses, That's going to be awkward.Honesty is the best policy. He might be a little embarrassed at first, but I'm sure he would want to know If he was offending you.
2007-09-03 00:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by Allan C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like it sloppy so its not like its wrong or anything, its just not the style you like so you gotta tell him.
Go somewhere where you can be along for a while. Ask him to let you take the lead so you can show him how you like it then give him lots of 'practice'. Heterosexual men often have a lot of pressure to get it right the first time and are expected to be in control and not discus how they are feeling. I have found guys find it a relief to have a girl tell them how they like it. And if not they can't complain about all the sexy time they are getting. Fear not: even the worst kissers can be reformed!
2007-09-02 23:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Merrabelle A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so u say this guy is your fiance. yet, ur not comfortable enough to tell him about his wet kisses? umm, communication is very important in a marriage. u know?
if ur not comfortable talking to him about this subject then mybe he isn't the right guy. my girlfriend and i can, and have, talked about everything that gets on each others nerves and I think it gives us a stronger relationship. maybe u should tell him.
2007-09-02 22:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by the grand super C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan to get married better start practicing being honest now. Start by telling him how much you want to spend hours kissing him and then add "but...." If there's any hope for your marriage you will be able to work it out.
2007-09-02 22:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by barbara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're uncomfortable telling him this, and you are going to marry him........??
I'd say kissing is lower down on your list of problems, you need to communicate better before marrying this guy!
2007-09-06 10:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to present you with a towell after each kissing session.
2007-09-03 02:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ben-Elijah Gareth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something like.."I've already bathed today!"
Hahaha, just kidding.
I don't really know if it's possible to tell him without offending him, or it being akward, unfortunately.
Try hints?
2007-09-02 22:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by taylor ray. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you get engaged to someone who you dont like kissing ???
but apart from that , you GOTTA tell him as it will only get worse and worse as its obviously something that reallly bothers you
if he really loves you he will thank you for telling him
all the best
Ian
2007-09-02 22:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have considered this before you got engaged to him.
2007-09-03 04:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋