i had an answerer tell me earlier that gays chose to be gay when they first had homosexual sexual intercourse..
what if you are a "40 year old virgin" who is flamboyant? doesnt that make you a homosexual?
2007-09-02 21:17:46 · 20 answers · asked by Pisces 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
about rape: it's not rape when two homosexuals decide to have sex/make love/ whatever they want to call it...
2007-09-02 21:28:22 · update #1
You're beating your head against the wall. The people you're addressing are logic impaired.
2007-09-02 21:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality is not a choice. There is a ridiculous assumption that if something is not genetical than it is a choice. This is just not true. Being a Christian is not genetically programmed yet a child does not sit down one day and say 'Oh today I think I will be a Christian'
Once something is learned it is as much a part of us as our eyes and ears. To change it we have to go through a process of realizing it is wrong and then examining the alternatives to see which now fits our beliefs.
2007-09-02 21:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Freethinking Liberal 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I especially hate it how people say we choose to be gay and thats its wrong, like we were unaware of how people and society feel about it. They never seem to think that its the way a person feels that determines sexuality and that we don't feel right with someone of the opposite gender. Some people who know I'm gay have called me a whore or think I have lost my viginity even though I'm a virgin. I havn't even kissed anyone for crying out loud!
2007-09-02 23:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are creating a false dichotemy. you are assuming there are only two choices. There are three.
You can choose to be gay
You can choose to be straight.
Or you can choose nothing. In which case the default kicks in and you are straight.
However, natural or choice is completely irrelevant. Simply because something is natural doesnt mean its right. Violence is natural. Hate is natural. Lying is natural. Intolerance is natural. Laziness is natural. That doesnt mean any of those things are right.
The natural man is an enemy to God and has been so since the fall of Adam and will be forever and ever until he puts off the natural man and yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit.
See that's the Good News of the Gospel. Christ atoned for the sins of the world. He rose from the dead. And because of His actions, our human natures can be changed. We can become Born again. We can be new creatures.
That is the power of Christ - to change human nature itself.
So it doesnt matter if you argue that its natural till you are blue in the face. The Atonement has power to change people.
2007-09-02 21:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Avatar_defender_of_the_light 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think homosexual is not addressed in B__ble therefore it's ok. But since "Thou shall not kill" only applies for "human" not animal, then you could have "adultery" or whatever sexual intercourse with animals are NOT WRONG, because Bible doctrine silence about that.
Therefore, you could go for animals first for trial, then to human for homosex.
But there are religious doctrine guides how to withdraw from all "material attachments", of course gradually and eventually. This will answer all your questions.
2007-09-02 21:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
See. While I have nothing -against- homosexuality, my paradigm on it will probably offend you. You're right, homosexuality is not a choice, it's an imposition by nature. A nature which does not want your genes to survive. The clearest way to do that is to make you attracted to your sex so that you'll not be able to procreate. Nature does the same thing with Lemurs, except to a more extreme degree. When Lemurs become over populated, a certain percentage just jump off cliffs to their death.
So you're right, homosexuality is not a choice, it's a curse.
2007-09-02 21:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
There are religious saying "detach from ALL wordly" desire, therefore moderation and eventually and totally deprieve from ALL senses...Oneness.
This will tell you are belong to which Religion. (Of course will answer everyone).
Other "human" will not understand, neither answer you using their doctrine. You are not belong to them, neither anyone. You're born as a homo is not your fault. But if you want to know the "absolute truth", then you have to go back to the "root" of all religions. The answer is there (H____ism & Bu____sme, without any bias.
2007-09-02 21:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the same age that I chose not to have pre-marital sex. I was a virgin until I got married, and that was definitely a choice.
2007-09-02 21:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Julien... you're just a rocket scientist...
I am a lesbian, and as far as your procreation theory goes... my partner and I am getting married next month, and we're planning to have our first child in 2008. See, we get to actually PLAN our families, unlike people like YOU who probably "had to" get married.
2007-09-02 22:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by Nut B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality is not a choice,but involving yourself in homosexual sex is.
2007-09-02 21:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋