im 16, and im just terrible at getting any luck with girls in my high school, is there anyway i can fix this?

Question

i try almost everything, i was desperate enough to get a product called phelure and that hasnt even helped...im in great shape i dress nice but can never get any girls attention...if i keep this up ill never get a girlfriend and im already 16

Answer 1

don't worry your still young, if you stop acting desperate, girls will come.

Answer 2

Dude, I'm 17. I have three friends in my main circle. I'm the only one who has had a girlfriend and it was when I was 14. Don't give up. Talk to your friends about it, they're really the best people to meet girls with. 16 and no girl friend isn't the end of the world, but it can sure feel like it. Don't let it get to you, because it hinders you're ability to talk to girls. Get yourself out there make some friends and try to flirt with one. It's so much easier if you're already friends.

Go after girls with a strategy and an idea of what you want from every outting. I recently decided to pick my game up and it is actually working. Stick to it, and you'll find somone worth having.

best of luck to you man, and believe me when i say you're not alone

Answer 3

take it from a fellow 16-year-old guy whos been an eternal bachelor up to this point in my life to. I read this and I couldn't help but to offer my advice. I, too am in shape, although i doubt apparel has much to do with the ladies likin you or not. first of all, dont seem so desperate. admitting it is not good, much less announcing it. just play it cool. you dont have to always try and get their attention and trust me - there is such thing as tryin to hard and it's all to common. another thing is, you should never feel incomplete by the lack of female companionship. you don't need a women to define who you are. learn to enjoy being single. the sooner you do that, the sooner you'll be more comfortable with your identity. at tht point, the ladies will be flocking all over you.

Answer 4

Well you see, girls can tell when you're trying too hard to get a girlfriend, and some girls are different, but alot of the girls i know are disgusted by it. So try just laying back and being yourself, if you really want to draw a girls attention you need to talk to them, some girls just don't notice you, they don't even know you're looking at them half the time. Oblivious ones girls are, and this is coming from a girl. So, normally what I find attractive in a man is one who's not afraid to be himself, so he just talks to me as if i were one of his buddies only maybe a little less agressive towards me, more respect sort of. So don't try to get a girlfriend, try to be friends with girls, and eventually it'll evolve into something. Girls like to be clingy to their men, though if a girl isn't clinging to you, don't cling to her because there are girls that hate when guys are clingy and I am one of them. So talk to girls you're interested in call them on the phone, chat with them, hang with them, girls like that. A girl that makes you get on your knees to be with them isn't worth it and she obviously thinks to high of herself, so just stick to the kind that are not exactly easy to get but just cool around you, you know? Treat you like they would anyone else as a relationship begins to grow. So i hope i could help

Answer 5

Don't worry, you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend. You will find a great guy when your older, besides at the age 13 not many people find love... No need to rush or worry. And remeber that if a guy dosnt't like you for who you are, they are so not worth it... :)

Answer 6

if you are of the types that dress nice, smart looking know that you are deserving enough for girls to like you and still cant get it, you are like me. the point is you dont have to wait for girls to come and ask to you, go to them , have crispy chat, after some time, the girl will start liking you.you will have to take the first step
and it will definitely work

Answer 7

be confident enough to go up to a girl
at least get to know her
and dont be the type that'll go and ask the whole school out
be yourself and if any girl dnt like you the way are then move on cause they aint worth changin over

Answer 8

aww depressing.

smile at the girl you like, talk to her, get to know her. ususally you need to be friends before anything else or it'll never work...

and ask a female friend of your for help =D we're useful creatures, but it's easier to give advice and to someone and to get good advice from people you know rather then a random person on Yahoo Answers

Answer 9

lemme tell u like this, i'm 14 and i aint neva had a girl(except 4 one) but anyway that was cuz i had no confidence in myself and i was 2 shy. just try 2 make urself known around ur school. u say ur in great shape, play football or somethin(u know girls like atheletes). or if u 2 shy 2 holla @ at a girl, get a friend 2 go talk 2 her 4 u so she knows ur interested. now if u straight up ugly, i dunno how 2 help cuz looks arent a issue 4 me now. lol. jk. but u'll b alrite just be confident.

Answer 10

Try walking up to them and talking to them. Tell them how nice they look, ask them about their interests and things. A few may turn you down, but eventually, one of them is going to enjoy the attention, and there you have it!!!

Answer 11

Rejection is the first step to seceding