i am 16, my teacher is 39,she is damn beautiful. i keep thinking ABOUT HER.
i knew its infatuation,i promise myself, i will not think about her only to find at the end of the day that 90% of the time, i had been thinking about her.I cant do any other work, my mind is always there, thinking about her. please help
2007-09-02 19:44:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know there is a girl in your class that is obsessing about you. Just look around she is the shy one that blushes when you look her way.
2007-09-02 19:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by IRIS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 10:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural man, we all had our one teacher we were obsessed with. You'll be ok. As long as it is not affecting your relationship with girls your own age I wouldn't even sweat it. But if its that bad , and you wanna stop. Just realize its not gonna happen, and she never thinks about you in that way. And that she has been with men that have alot more to offer then a 16 year old. When you believe its not possible, you'll still think about her that way lol. Sorry man its part of being a guy, your gonna see chicks you can't have and want your entire life, get used to it. Good luck, and bring her apple to class she deserves it for giving you such a good fantasy
2007-09-02 19:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by CarlessY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a 16 year old with the same problems all guys your age have. You know nothing about her life after the last school bell rings. Its her age you like. To be 16 and say you hooked-up with someone twice your age would make you the talk of the school. You will forget about her when it comes time to find a prom date.
2007-09-02 20:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to - not think about her - just accept that's she's beautiful and enjoy it.
But don't obsess. Don't follow her, don't watch her leave the school grounds, don't hang around her for no reason, don't ask stupid questions becuase you want to hear her voice or have her look at you. That would be stupid and create issues.
Just appreciate that she's gorgeous and keep on going with your life & school.
As long as your school work doesn't suffer I don't see a problem with checking out a cute teacher. :)
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2007-09-02 19:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all she is a teacher, second she is old enough to be your mom! You need distractions eventually you will forget, try doing some other activities, try thinking of girls your own age that are not off limits. Eventually the semester will be over and you'll forget.
2007-09-02 19:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she's hot and beautiful but you're 16 and she's 39. She could be your mother...a young mother, mind you, but she could be. Just think, the older you get, ther older she'll get and the less hot she'll be. Get over her and move on!!
2007-09-02 20:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by stax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really bold you can take a shot at her ;) But it might helt to get you a girl tho.
2007-09-02 19:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think that if this woman even looks your way, she can go to jail!!
Get over it, and look for some girls your own age.
Seriously..............QUIT THINKING WITH YOUR PANTS AND LEAVE THIS WOMAN ALONE.
2007-09-02 19:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by hrcarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's so sweet...kind of odd but sweet. =] ...I say that you just keep thinking about her. Who is it hurting? Just as long as you get your work done =P
2007-09-02 19:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by SheKnowsEverything 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋