We been together for 4 years now and he is 45 and I am 32.I have an orgasm every time , but feel bad that he don,t.Is this normal for a man of his age?
2007-09-02 19:21:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do I get him to have one?
2007-09-02 19:22:17 · update #1
Hey im not a guy but give him head than have sex.... that should work.
2007-09-02 19:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Wow theres serious issues if you cant get a man to have a orgasm. That's usually a given. With that age he may be experiencing ED. And Then you may have to check into some medications. If not then you have to try alot harder, there is no reason you shouldn't be able to get a man off, its simple most guys get off first, I know my woman has no problem in that catagory she usually takes care of me more than once in a row. Does he find you attractive? Thats the only reason I could see him not being able to get off, and even then you could turn the lights off or wear a mask, is the intrest in you there? I dont think so.
2007-09-02 19:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by CarlessY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-03 00:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep throat him and after you get it all in your mouth, stick out your tongue and massage his testicles with your tongue. Pull your head back slowly and make sure to make a slurping sound while doing so. When you get to the head of the shaft, do not come off of it. Instead massage it softly in your mouth and and nibble gently on the foreskin at the tip. Move your head around slowly while you continue this motion and then notice surprise him by going down hard again for another deep throat. Repeat as necessary. I could teach you more but I'd have to charge.
2014-11-12 09:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you want to discuss with him FIRST, but I suggest you have an open conversation about what each of you like during sex, perhaps he has a specific fantasy that you would be willing to play out with him, and if a man of that age has a scenario or fantasy he like or has found pleasure in imagining, trust me, he will orgasm if you play it out for him.
2007-09-02 19:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by ems_fire_rescue_ks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not "Normal" but......Many men his age have trouble and a vast majority of these have trouble for physical reasons that can easily be treated by a doctor. If he's having trouble in general (in oral, touching and penetration) this certainly could be the case.
If he's only having trouble climaxing during penetration, there's something else involved. Boredom, or some deeper issue.
2007-09-02 19:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by the_kidfrost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him?
It seems crazy that you would rather ask the opinion of strangers on here, rather than ask the one person who might be able to give you the right answer. What he wants, rather than what anyone else thinks is what matters.
Be gentle when you ask, and do not look disapproving or upset if he gives you an unexpected answer. Then if you are comfortable with what he would like, do it!
2007-09-02 19:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are ya using condoms? They take a lot of the feeling away. If you are both clean and have some other method of birth control try going without. Or use a lubricant, (KY or some such) put some inside the condom to.
2007-09-02 19:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here is a way that works every time. When me and my wife "mattress surf" and she gets off first, she slides down and gives me some head. Just when it seems like the head job won't work, she runs her finger straight up my asshole while giving me head!! Don't ask me why, but it works every time!!! Hope this helps!
2007-09-02 19:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mark B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow , a chic orgasms every time. but the guy doesnt? news to me but ok. Talk dirty, scratch your nails in his back,try new positions ,watch porno and most importantly communicate. that is crucial in finding out what your significant other likes. You dont have to be blatant and say "whats it gonna take to make you ***? " haha sorry ...lol just be subtle and I hope it works. all this coming from a 24 yo fella lol
2007-09-02 19:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by johnny731@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no..
has he always come late?
how long does it take?
for a normal guy it usually takes 10-15 minuets (fact) for a man to come.
maybe he needs more foreplay, or something to spice things up,,
2007-09-02 19:26:15 · answer #11 · answered by Batak 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋