I got blamed for stuff that never happened. Like for example, I usually go JOG at the park everyday where there is alot of OLD PEOPLE who talks a whole load TRASH, who snitches, and who adds additional stuff to anything they see.
Sometimes I come across my old homeboys and we say "hi' to each other. Talk for a little bit and then we go our own way.
Now rumors all going around that I go to the park FCUK around with MARRIED MENS everyday.
I am really embarrassed. I really don't know what to do. I don't even want to go out any where anymore. I don't even want to show my face anywhere anymore.
Help me.
2007-09-02 19:13:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
i've had that happen to me before. a friend of mine came to my house and left relatively late (like 4am) and we hugged outside. from that, my neighbors told my parents and other neighbors i was having sex with a guy on top of his car. i rolled my eyes and never gave it another thought. i don't care what people think i do or don't do. people will believe what they want to regardless of proof. so go on about your business, do what you do, and ignore everyone. they are boring people so they need to spice up their existence by living vicariously through you, or lies they have said about you.
hell, i would even antagonize them.
2007-09-02 19:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by jack_skellington49 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just change the route you jog??
Jog in the neighbourhood?
Ignore the idiots. Are you really going to 'not live' just because of what people might say or think about you??
Grab yourself a big 'ole cup of self-esteem! You're a great guy to even think about your health to go jogging!
2007-09-03 09:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by sprite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd laugh and continue my daily activities.
I had rumors going on around me where I used to work that I was having sex with one of my friends, just because they say me talking in the hall with him every day for a minute or so! Heck I even got lectured by one of my managers about it. I just told him "we are friends, and my workplace will NOT be dictating who I can and cannot be friends with!".
2007-09-03 09:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if someone's spreading rumours about you, that person is probably jealous cuz you have something they don't ! just ignore them ... people will talk because they feel compelled to! so just forget about the whole thing...if you'll try to hide away people will think the rumours were actually true cuz you're guilty and you can't face the world because you're guilty .... so just go out, be casual like you were before and pretend like nothing happpened. if someone thinks something bad about you, it's their problem ... you just don't care about it .....
2007-09-03 04:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all who cares! you know the truth, so keep on going about your business. You can't help that you are sexy and have a great body.
2007-09-03 04:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by orangie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could go jogging somewhere else for awhile, it'll blow over.......but really, it isn't worth paying attention to. Its not true, so let it go......
2007-09-06 17:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, is it true?
if it isnt, confront the people who have been gossiping.
hiding away = guilty. so show them
2007-09-03 02:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by miss understand 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋