the person isn't married yet.... she just have a baby....
2007-09-02 18:11:57 · 26 answers · asked by mystery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a few things to consider.
As long as the father isn't romantically involved it should be okay. But remember that once a baby is involved you have to consider the feelings of the child. Having a new man in your life means a new father figure for the child, and whether or not you mean it to be that way, the child will become attached to the new man. This can pose a problem if the relationship doesn't work out. However, dating life shouldn't have to suffer because a child is involved. Just be careful about who you date, and the relationship that develops between the man and baby, just to ensure that if it doesn't work, your child won't suffer for it. Of course, the new man could be the one you end up marrying, in which case, it all works out nicely.
Best of luck!
2007-09-02 18:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kavasa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine for her to have a boyfriend and a baby. However I feel that someone who has a child or children should be careful about keeping the two separate until the relationship is serious enough to bring the two together.
2007-09-02 18:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by cyber_phobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. Just because you have a child does not mean your life ends.
If I had not dated after I had my son [I was a single mom] I would never have found the wonderful husband that is not only perfect for me, but is a great father figure too!
Just be responsible and remember that you are a mom. Going to the clubs everynight and coming home, or going home with someone else, drunk is still irresponsible.
2007-09-02 18:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Little One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course! infact it is very important that your friend does got out and socailse , get a boyfriend, fall in love etc but just remind her , watever happens she must put her baby first and make sure she knows her new boyfriend well!! her boyfriend could bring danger to the baby or something. she needs to be so much more cautious about the men she dates.
2007-09-02 18:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is still with the baby's daddy and planning to marry, then yes, it is wrong to have a boyfriend.
But if the baby's daddy is not in the picture, well then of course.
Should she be punished for the rest of her life for making a mistake, no.
I suggest you put yourself in her shoes and then see if you can answer the question..
2007-09-02 18:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front about the child. Don't play games. Now that a kid's involved, her radar has to be on full alert for creeps and weirdos out there. So long as your careful, it's fine to date with kids of your own.
2007-09-02 18:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Phillyfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with that. There are single mothers everywhere that are dating and/or having boyfriends. Good for her that she has a man in her life after not having anyone especially being a single mother.
2007-09-02 18:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by csw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay but you you have to be very aware of your relationship and how it is introduced to your children. It is not fair to bring them into your relationship and also not fair to be introducing boyfriends and then the boyfriends are here one day and gone the next and the kids don't understand that. Be very cautious!
2007-09-02 18:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by tarac0202 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you cant expect her to be alone like the guy that guy that got her her pregnant . Shes probably venerable too so make sure that she isn't being taken advantage of ....
2007-09-02 18:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, provided he likes babies and children, and would like to be a father, some time.
2007-09-02 18:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋