So I Normally Like Older Boys but This New Guy I'm Talkin To Is Younger And He Has A Baby. I mean I always Said No younger Boys or Boys With Babys. I Really Like Him But Is It Wrong For Me to Second Guess And Judge Him ??
2007-09-02 17:50:18 · 7 answers · asked by ms_amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO...its up to you...
2007-09-02 17:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want tention in this relationship I wouldn't suggust to judge him. Mainly because not knowing the full facts and story does make a person look bad and you might come off as judgemental. The problem is that people look at mistakes that causes them to overlook the person which leads sabtoging a chance at happiness. Also besides this judging thing works both ways if you would judge him in this situation then I am sure he is bound to look for a mistake then judge to get back at you. Also you wouldn't have the guilt of saying something later you might regret and feeling guilty and like someone is likely to return the favor to you.
Now if you really like this guy then you will drop that saying of no younger boys or boys with babys because often keeping a commitment on some sayings doesn't always work out. If you really care for him and like you will go against that. If not then move on.
2007-09-03 01:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jason C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are God, then you shouldnt judge, though the second guessing is understandable. It means there would always be some kind of connection with the other parent. But i have dated women that have kids and its not too bad. Just because somebody has a kid doesnt mean they are a bad person or a whore or anything :)
2007-09-03 00:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old saying goes, "Never judge a book buy its cover", first read a few pages, before you jump to conclusions, but as individuals we make standards in our life of what we want, and if you our open-minded give it a chance, but if you believe in what you stand for move on and keep standing.
2007-09-03 00:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by peaches1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes. if you dont like younger guys or men with children thats a fair judgement, it just means thats your taste in men. however i would say its not fiar to judge him and say he's not worthy of a person affection, just not yours. hell i dont like boys with babies, which to me means he didnt learn enough about std's or putting on a condom had no relevance in his life then and damn sure wont if he had sex with me.
2007-09-03 01:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Chocolate_Tai_69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not a problem since he had a baby.
2007-09-03 00:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-09-03 00:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋