Im engaged and getting married (happily) next yr. My ex who cheated on me in 2004 then wanted to wrok things out suddenly emailed me out of the blue about a week or so ago. I deleted the emailing having nothing to saying (I haven't said ANYTHING to him since about....early 2006... and even that conversation was an arguement. We argued every other day from 04 to 06 when I finally switched schools. We broke up on complete bad terms and have not been friends. BUT not only does he email me, he finds me on myspace and tries to write me there AND calls my aunt's house (he used to call me there when we were together)! I dont know what to do. My fiancee' is very trusting so he doesn't care if I email him or not. I dont have anything to say to him! Ive read his messages, he just wants to share his life happenings.
Should I write him back? What do I say? Do i wave my wedding in his face? Should I keep ignoring him? You think he stalking me? (he lives in another state)
2007-09-02 17:35:49 · 10 answers · asked by LOVE BEING A MOMMY 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I contact him at all...Im afraid I may be rude to him although I want to be...then again I dont! lol I dont know. That's why I deleted the messages!
2007-09-02 18:01:12 · update #1
Well it seems you found the right guy for you. and your ex is trying to find away to get back at you. I beleive you don't need to talk to him but it's your life and the only thing I can say is FOLLOW YOUR HEART.
I wish I had the man for me but I don't and if I did, I wouldn'd give him a reason to not trust me by talking and catching up with an ex. you have to ask your this. DO YOU WANT YOUR MAN CATCHING UP WITH ONE OF HIS EX'S?
FOLLOW YOUR HEART GIRL, ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT AND WRONG.
2007-09-05 17:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by CHRISTINA R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you are soon to be happily married right? Well then what is the reason to stay in contact with your ex? Imagine if your husband was rekindling things with his ex, how would you feel? You are getting married to a wonderful fatithful man I suppose, why would you try and mess things up?
The myspace page I think you need to delete or either block him. Your email address, change it and dont give him the new one. Or either block him, and dont respond to his msgs. He will get the hint. Leave him alone
2007-09-10 19:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by crazy s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he may just want to catch up.I had an Ex contact me too and I thought oh no what does he want? Turns out he was in a bad car accident and he was bored to tears while recovering. I would certainly tell him of your wedding though.
2007-09-03 00:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girl, try ignoring him. Blacklist his email address from your mail, so automatically gets deleted. I don't know if that can be done, but try. You're better off without him. Who needs the stress.
2007-09-10 23:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by tepania4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl keep on ignoring him and get on with your life. Change your e-mail address, also get another my space ID, their are ways to cut him off if you really want too.
2007-09-11 00:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by onyx1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep as you are doing yes hes stalking you and hes not good for you do not talk to him every again hes bad news fro you. just be happy and ignore him dont' waste your breath on him.
2007-09-10 20:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him. he obviously knows about u gettin married and probably isnt happy in his life that he wants to make u not happy. i say forget him and email him telling him to leave you alone that there's nothing you want to say to him and dont want anything to do with him.
2007-09-10 14:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by ..::..Lovin him..::.. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to answer to him. He probably found out about your happiness and wants to spoil it. Move on, block him from your email or change yours completely and move on. Congratulations on your happiness.
2007-09-10 23:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ...ur engaged...u dont need to contact him....he cheated on u...and the man that ur gonna marry...hopefully will be faithfull to u
2007-09-10 21:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Xiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean he might want to catch up. but its kind of weird that it came out of the blue. if you don't want to talk to him you don't have to. and it's good that your fiannce is so trusting.
2007-09-10 20:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋