im 19 m, not too bad lookin, and i went up to this really hot girl that was lookin @ me and we started talkin.. i found out she was not in school and that she works minimum wage with her mom.... even after she told me this i asked her out... is that a good thing or a bad thing?
2007-09-02 17:26:42 · 31 answers · asked by puaporn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i meant.... would SHE be turned on or OFF
2007-09-02 17:32:16 · update #1
congratulations! you did a good thing man. at least you have a hot girl, education is not the only important thing in life, its personality, knowledge, smartness.
2007-09-02 17:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dag man, whats wrong with her working a minimum wage job at 19? Come on, I dont know of any 19 year old making $30 bucks an hour. So what she doesnt go to school, what makes you better than her just because your in college and she isnt. Your only 19, its not like your asking her to marry you or something, your just dating her.. Maybe you could help her see the light as far as going to college or getting a better job by encouraging her.
2007-09-02 17:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by faisonik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people fall in love by physical attraction at first. It's not a bad idea at all, and then love grows in depth. If she responds to you, why not?
19 is very young, some people are not mature enough to know what to do with life. We can't judge people by their job. I think she does have a goal, otherwise why won't she stay home and have fun hanging out with friends. Having a job is decent enough. At that young age, there's a lot of limitations. I hope you both find true love together, grow together, and inspire each other for a better future.
2007-09-02 17:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say a good thing, you thought enough of her to ask her out. you looked past what some might think is not good enough...because you thought what the heck, right ?
so now...take her out and see what shes all about.
respect her!
she thought you were an ok enough guy that she could tell you about her life.
life is far to short to not take chances...risks or paths we wouldnt normally take. live a little and explore who you are and in doing so you will not only come to know yourself better but you will learn to understand those around you a heck of a lot better too.
take it from someone who knows...break your patterns and you will enjoy life a whole lot more.
keep this in mind, no one is perfect we come in all shape colors sizes and have sooooooo many different personalites and ethics...morals...etc.
best of luck to you :)
p.s. not sure if you meant she had graduated already or had dropped out. so you should clarify that...surely others will question that as well.
if she dropped out and you find something in her you like, give her your support and offer to help her if she goes back to school. sometimes it is overwhelming for some people.
if she graduated and your meaning shes older than you or something....so be it...have fun
hope this helps :)
2007-09-02 17:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Junkmail S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a turn off, but you can't really judge people right off the bat.It's good because you didn't let her education intervene your interest in her.Which sounds like you're not shallow.Bad thing is that you can easily be dragged into a relationship with a bad person.Bad in the sense that she doesn't have dreams or goals.It can be depressing to live with a person like that because they always stay where they are.No progress at all.You should go out with her, and make up your mind.It looks like she's not goal-oriented, but we don't know her.Get to know her, and decide then if your conclusions were right.
2007-09-02 17:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Marla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you thinking it's a bad thing because she works minimum wage with her mom or what? If it's about the job thing, then you're pretty shallow. I wouldn't say it's a bad thing for you to ask her out.
2007-09-02 17:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by h1u4sxda 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not sure it's either good or bad. So what if she's not in school? She's working, regardless of wage, which shows responsibility.
I don't think there's any reason to judge you based on what information you've supplied. She's hot, she works and is obviously attracted to you...sounds like a good deal to me.
You didn't say if she said "yes" or not. I'm assuming she accepted your offer. If so, awesome for you!!!
Good luck!
S.C.
2007-09-02 17:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by °Severe Clear™° 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the problem? At least she works. How do you know if she does not have a goal in life. I worked for minimum wage when i was around that age so that i could help with my college. Don't judge.
2007-09-02 17:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by carriec 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what s wrong with that? maybe she has to work ,have you thought of that!! Maybe she helps her mom and helps pay bills. Don't judge her for not going to school ! She may have reasons and how do you know she won't go back some day? You should base how you feel on the person and who they are and the kind of person there are and get to know them before you think the worst of them !!
2007-09-02 17:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite a bad thing because you name tells me you are some kind of child rapist. puaporn. haha jk. Asking someone out that fast is a bad thing, you don't even know that person.
2007-09-02 17:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Lovalova 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋