i dated this guy for three months, and i really liked him. but then i dumped him cuz i liked his best friend alot more. but now, seeing him again, i think i luv him. HELPP!
2007-09-02 15:46:50 · 21 answers · asked by red_head423 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
god people could u be a little harsher?? i mean, i hate harry potter and plezz? BARBIES?? what is ur damage? this is the 21st century!!! 5 yr olds r dating!!!! stop living in the past and stop acting like ima slut cuz i dumped him 4 his BFF. its a long story anyways. u dont kno me. god thnx.
2007-09-02 16:07:03 · update #1
Personally, I just think that you're infatuated with him. You said you used to go out with him but then liked his best friend, which means that you didn't like him enough to rule out any other guys. Then you see him again, and you start to get feelings? Definite crush, but you're not in love with him.
Don't get yourself into another mess with him. Just be good friends with him and thats it.
2007-09-02 15:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by ledorkii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but I see your situation differently - I think you need to think long and hard before making any sort of decision. You dumped your ex for another guy - how did he feel about that? I think that you're displaying your youthfulness in your decision making - it appears that you showed very little or no kindness to your ex-boyfriend.
I'm a guy and I know what rejection is like so I can empathize with your exboyfriend - whether or not he and I are alike.
Please be very careful what you do - guys do have hearts and can be very hurt by heartache or heartbreak - just as girls and women can.
2007-09-02 22:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ others that u might be 2 young but heck, I'm 15 and I hang out with seniors at my school, so people stop saying she's to young, it's maturity not age, know ur question, It's ok to break up and get 2geter again, so you made a mistake going after his friend, it's called forgive and forget, and we all need to take that to heart
2007-09-02 22:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are only 13. You don't know what love is sweetie. Don't worry about it. Just be friends and have fun. Go on group dates and just hang out. Love is a long ways away for you . Worry about other things than boys and who you "love". Some people search there whole lives for love and you can't find it in Junior High. Just have fun while your young and date boys and be friends but leave love out of it.
2007-09-02 22:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tessie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a little advice dont leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for who they love...
i think you need to forget about the two of them you dont really want to be responsible for breaking up a friendship...one day those guys will look back to the past and remember you as the girl who destroyed his friendship with his bestfriend
you should just move on to some other guys and yes it will be hard but if you really love your ex so much you should stay away from him becayse you probably still have fellings for his bestfriend and that will only end up hurting him more
2007-09-03 15:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rule #1, you never date the ex of your girl friends and you never date the BFF of your Ex's. And understand that you are 13. I know you don't want to hear this, but you will be over this guy soon and onto someone else. Its a cycle that never ends for the most part. Enjoy this while you can.
2007-09-02 22:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I highly doubt you're in love if you're "dating" at age 13, and dumping guys for their best friends. You're more inclined to "love" the most popular guy.
2007-09-02 22:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be dating at 13
2007-09-02 22:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hun at 13 you dont know what love is other than parental and sibling. go see the new Harry Potter and enjoy being young
2007-09-02 22:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by woodenturkey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well give it time and if u still like him then think why u like him. Then if u think its the right thing then ask him out again
i hope i helped!!!
2007-09-02 22:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Rayray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋