Still meet a man that you just met online and he asked you to come and see him because of his schedule constraints.
Furthermore, you felt confident about him but everything he told you about himself does not check out? Such as his name, place of work, what he does for a living, age, background etc...
I received a dream of warning last night not to meet this man, but he is so convincing when we talk over the phone.
Ladies would YOU still fly out to meet this man or not?
2007-09-02 15:24:29 · 34 answers · asked by Saffronmoon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell no. Don't do it, you already said you're having bad feelings about it.
2007-09-02 15:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO. You just said that everything he told you doesn't check out, so why do you still want to see him? Do you like to play with danger? Of course, he is convincing because he is good at, especially if he is a trouble man, who has done this before. Don't become his next victim. If something doesn't seem right, don't even think to fly to see him because you will end up being in a strange city without no one to turn for help. I hope you are not even considered to stay at his place!!!!
If he really likes you, then he eventually can visit you despite of his schedule. If you still want to meet him then, just make sure that you meet him in a public place. For now, don't give him any personal information such as where you live, you work or etc! Be careful.
p.s.what did you do to try check his information out? Did you call his workplace?
2007-09-02 15:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Negative--NO way would I recommend flying to some guys territiory where you know no one and have no way to get help if it all goes bad. He lied?? He gave phony info?? why would you go?? Are you nuts?? He is probably married and will spend an hour with you--time constraints and other stupid stories mean trouble--are you not seeing this whole picture?? Save your money sweetie---why can't you find a nice local guy--someone you can take a nice easy time to find out everything about him?? Liars, perverts, cheaters---hey you can get into some real serious trouble going to see this guy. Man--you just got a real warning from ME--don't go !!! Sure he is convincing--he is good at this crap--probably screwed 50 women that he tricked into flying out to meet him. he didn't invite you to just shake hands--get a dose of reality here--this is dangerous at best !!
2007-09-02 15:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arrange a meeting that allows you plenty of buffer space and escape opportunity.
such as telling him to wear a certain colour shirt and stand in the middle of a park at midday, giving you plenty of time to view him from across the street to make sure he's the same guy.
better yet, bring a friend with you, a big burly male friend, or two
meet in a public place during the day, if he wants you to meet him at his house at night then he's probably internet scum
2007-09-02 15:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by TedRoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he has to fly out to meet me in a public place, and he doesn't stay over at my place. He has to find a hotel for himself.
If his schedule is constraints, then you'll wait until he can fit you into his schedule to fly out to where you live.
2007-09-02 15:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I would not and neither sould u because this man could rape u kill u or whatever and If u still do go and meet him u need to bring someone with but don't make that person noticable kinda try to keep that person the hush and make sure its a person who can pretect u and them selfs. But still wouldn't go if I were u.
2007-09-02 15:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, Not at all. I would definitely follow my gut feelings. Especially if I know most of the things he is saying does not match up, definitely do not meet up with this man. I think you should stop talking to him completely, I would hate to see you dead on the news. Drop him now, while you have the power to. Good Luck and God Bless You!
2007-09-02 15:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by JustaThought 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I believe in dream warnings. When you said that, I had a real feeling that you shouldn't go. If things don't check out that's a real red flag too. Better safe than sorry.
2007-09-02 15:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, i would never trust anyone i met online. there are too many fakes out there, & its crazy 2 trust ppl now. ur dream was a way of your mind telling u not to c him, & so u should listen 2 ur instincts. if his info doesn't check out, its probably bcuz he made it all up. i personally would never trust some1 like him. if u really have to though and u feel all around good about him, i would bring friends, just in case. have ur friends and his friends meet up & hang out, so if theres trouble, you'll have backup. Good Luk!!
2007-09-02 15:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by advice giver & needer! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. If he's that convincing while online or on the phone, he could manipulate you into doing other things better in person. Put him to the test, and see if he can wait. if he can't wait, then he just might be into it for something else.
If you can't trust him, don't take the risk. It could turn out ugly.
2007-09-02 15:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. Absolutely not. You can only trust people to a certain degree over the internet. If anything meet him in a public place, that way if he's not who you say he is then you can get out easily.
Just be careful.
2007-09-02 15:28:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋