Incidently, she invited my other friends instead of me just to spite me. But, My friends are still my other friends and I'm secure with that. I was a little upset in the beginning, now I'm over it. Should I send my friends a Card to give to her? Thanks!
2007-09-02 15:14:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
A wedding card that is :)
2007-09-02 15:14:30 · update #1
*sorry typo please take out (other)
2007-09-02 15:15:11 · update #2
so should I send her a card?
2007-09-02 15:23:14 · update #3
Really Tx princess that makesme feel sooooo much better I thought I was alone in this!
2007-09-02 15:36:32 · update #4
Wow, you are a kind person for even considering that. I would be like "screw you" and walk off.
You could give her a card. It would AT MOST cost 3-4 dollars for one (and that would be a very nice one.) That way you could show her you are the better person over her. It would also show your friends you are over that spite you might have felt towards her.
2007-09-02 15:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mayling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I would ask myself if this is really a friend or if you are just wanting to send a card to her to hint that you were upset about not being invited. If the answer is no and you are genuinely happy for her and would like her to know, I would mail them a card to their home, but do not send it with your friends to the wedding that would be like a jab on her wedding day. If she did this to spite you like you say best bet is to ignore this whole situation and get on with your fabulous life all you missed was an over priced party! I know easier said then done-good luck, I have been there.
2007-09-02 15:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by TxPrincess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation, only one of my bridesmaids got married a year after me and never invited me to her wedding...It stung of course, and I too was wondering if I should send a card or not with other friends that were going. I opted to send a card to their home. I even put a monetary gift inside. She sent a thank you note and that was that. I felt better knowing that I had not forgotten her on her very special day and that I didn't put my friends in the middle. If you feel like you need to send something, go ahead and send a card to their home, but definitely do not send it with others to the party. Good luck.
2007-09-02 16:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not obligated to send a card. If you don't like her ( and it sounds like you don't) don't send a card.
Have you considered that your invitation could have been lost in the mail? Maybe she didn't know your address. There may be a good reason why you weren't invited. You say you are over it, so just find something fun to do on that day and forget about the wedding.
2007-09-02 15:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by nitesong 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you care that much, send her a card but skip sending it with ur other friends. It is great that u r over it, so sending this card is with pleasure not spite. That is why sending it with ur other friends might send a message you do not want to send.
Write some of your own words and send a card from your heart.
2007-09-02 15:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Analyst 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would send a cheap dollar store card thourhg the other friends and even put like a dollar in it. That's dirty! She should have at least invited you to the ceremony if not the reception! Wow! Id do that jab in the stomach! Go for it! make her feel like SHT on her day! Then your friends can tell you about how far her face dropped into the cake when she read the card!
2007-09-02 17:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by LOVE BEING A MOMMY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with ProfessorC. Send the card to the couple's home address and don't put your friends in the middle of this.
If you don't know the home address, then maybe you aren't as close to bride as you believe. And if you are not close, then there is really no need to send a card or gift.
2007-09-02 15:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Suz123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if your intuition says to send a card, do just that. One never knows the reason why someone does something to hurt another but I find with a little prayer, you definitely come out ahead. With that in mind, do something for yourself the day of the wedding - maybe a pamper yourself day, or just a day to do anything you want. You'll stay beautiful inside and out!
2007-09-02 15:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by memories88 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. You are very sweet to think of your so called "friend." I agree with the others that posted.....if you want, send her a card, but MAIL it to her. I wouldn't send it along with the others that are actually going....I would mail it to her. Enclose a handwritten note saying something like "I wish you all the best in your marriage" or something like that. I'm sure in the end, she will feel bad that she did not invite you.
2007-09-02 15:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by iloveweddings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send a card to the home address- don't make your friends be in the middle.
2007-09-02 15:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by professorc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋