The stereo-type is men are gagging for it, so why do some of you say 'no'?
2007-09-02 13:54:19 · 47 answers · asked by Alexander J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In the words John McEnroe
"You cannot be serious"?
are you being serious??????????
or taking the pish???
Never ever come across this myself...................
2007-09-02 14:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Welshchick 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
In what context? If you are talking about the wife asking for some then it is probably because we are tired and can't be bothered when we know tomorrow she will still be there to do the deed if we want. If it's a woman in a nightclub then she is probably either not attractive of just not the mans type. I've rejected many women in the past but mainly due to them being drunk or just plain slutty. The more the women go out for sex the less attractive it seems.
2007-09-02 20:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by SR13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hah, I've officially taken interest in Trublood for saying it as he is male, and for being the first.
It may be crazy to you that men get over urges and say no for the right woman or because they arn't ready... And yeah... maybe because they're not pathetic.
Either way, this is to all the men out there going against the stereotype. Here's your support baby!
2007-09-02 14:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Bible forbids sex outside of marriage.Some of us fear God more than we want sex.Besides,King Solomon in the book of Proverbs says the after effect is as bitter as wormwood,because of laying in the bosom of a foreign woman.It made my wedding night that much better,no confessions of guilt or unknown children.
2007-09-02 14:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by gary s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably because a lot of women use thier sexuality as power, and guys do not like a woman to think that she has more to offer than they do. This is probably a good thing though, beacuse he wants more than just sex from you.
2007-09-02 14:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by BubbaGumpShrimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that having sex in certain situations just wouldnt be good, eg you have a boyfriend, you have a husband etc.
Just because we have a penis and you have a vagina doesnt mean you can just jump on it at any time, life is rarely that simple and when it is, wooo hooo
2007-09-02 14:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My gf has actually wondered why I have said no to sex and that she never declines it. Usually I'm tired because we have different schedules. Hell, I've gone a few times without cumming, but I still consider it goods sex because she would peak several times.
2007-09-02 14:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by Bootleg KING 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get tired as hell sometimes. Between working midnights, maintaining a home and raising 3 kids with my wife sometimes I just want some sleep.
2007-09-02 14:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by squidward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do men say no to sex?
Hmm...where did u learn this ....BBC..
Women need a reason to have Sex But man need only a place
2007-09-02 14:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Red Bull 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spoke to an amazing guy here the other day, who wants to wait until he finds his "soul mate". (you know who you are).
sometimes, if a man has "performance anxiety", he'll say no, because he's afraid of what (won't) happen.
there are probably as many reasons as there are men who say no.
2007-09-02 14:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by freespirit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men care about women and want more than just sex, that's why some say no.
2007-09-02 13:58:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋