am i a pathetic little idiot for failing inlove with this girl ? please check this out?

Question

i mean i know its not gonna work out then do i even give it a try or waste my time ?


please go to this Q n see
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmS7IKyx6gkNv2qWfaoQe1zty6IX?qid=20070901175221AAu5seH


i said go to that Q before you answer this please

yeah but what my kids will be ? which religoin ?

how are we going to raise our kids ?
alot of Qs here goin on ... im sure shes a proud christian she wants her kids to with her to the cruch, im a proud muslim i want my kids to come with me ....


when i said pathetic i meant if i knew that there are gonna problems, why did i even give it a try from the start right ?

Answer 1

If you know it's not going to work out you may as well end it now before you both get hurt any worse than you already will. Why go on if you can't get past the religion issue?

Answer 2

No your not a pathetic little idiot.

So what if your different religions? Love is all that matters. If you want to marry her like you stated in your other question, then if you both love each other, both sets of parents should understand and accept the fact that culture and religion shouldnt be what your life revolves around.

Answer 3

You are NOT a pathetic little idiot. Look, love is something you can't just STOP, whoever you fall in love with is not based off of looks, families, and definitely not religion. You can't just NOT love this girl because of her religion. You can listen to your brain and be sad regretful for the rest of your life. or you can follow your heart, just remember that love is far more important than any sort of belief of this world.

Answer 4

Tell her how you feel and about how you're worried your differences will keep you apart. A girl loves a honest guy who will wear his heart on his sleeve for her. Only the two of you can come up with a resolve. You might need to convert even if she is the one. I'm of course going to an extreme here, but it might come done to that option. Be prepared for the options.

Answer 5

If you guys really do love eachother then religion shouldn't be much of a problem. Work things out and everything will eventually turn out well, you'll see. Yet it all depends on you and her and how you both feel? Is this what you really want? Only you guys know that, and its for you two to decide. Good Luck to you both. = )

Answer 6

raise you kids in a open environment, and allow them to choose their own religion, Take your kids to both churches and have them pray for both, But don't shove it down their throats. If you love her it can work. My cousin, just married a Muslim, and she is christian, and both of their weddings were beautiful, let her share in the experiences of you religion and do the same for her. celebrate all the Christan holiday's and all the Muslim holidays. it can work if you make it work.

Answer 7

If the problem is religion, as stated in your other question, it shouldn't matter. Both of my parents were of different religions. Talk to her about it if you're ever considering marriage or children with her. Religion shouldn't stop you from loving someone you care about

Answer 8

You can get along with someone of a different religion. She don't talk about religion together and get in a debate, and she doesn't go to church together or whatever you guys go to. Religion shouldn't matter when you love someone.

Answer 9

Life is full of choices, you either make the right ones, or you make the wrong ones. I won't answer your question as it's really up to you what to decide. You need to ask yourself what is more important to you, her or the religion issue?

Answer 10

You're not pathetic. You can't help who you fall in love with. You just have to think about how important your religion is to you and if she means more to you than that.