There's this person, and I've liked him for about two years. We used to actually be able to talk to each other without getting into a fight, but now, we are kind of enemies (well, I don't consider him my enemy). By time I had actually gotten the nerve to say something, it was too late. According to him (what he tells his buddies), we've always been enemies, which I know damn well is NOT true. It bothers me. I am so bugged. I wish I could somehow regain his respect, and I know it will take a while, because this obviously can't be rushed. I know many of you will probaly tell me "Give it up, it's hopeless", but in the situation, it isn't easy. I believe this has nearly driven me literally insane, and if it were anyone else, I would have given up. I'm willing to do just about anything- I will put in time and effort until I can find a good solution. I have seriously asked people in real life, looked up things on the internet (I know- I even sound crazy), but nothing has helped.Suggestions?
2007-09-02 13:36:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S.- I REALLY like him... maybe more than that, as crazy as it sounds.
2007-09-02 13:40:11 · update #1
Yes! Finally an answer! Now I'm curious to see what others have to say.
2007-09-02 13:49:05 · update #2
Well, our fight was over one of his friends... this friend and I didn't get along, so of course, he takes his friend's side.
2007-09-02 13:54:11 · update #3
look if you like this guy. just grit your teeth and have a heart to heart talk with him. tell him you grown up and want to bury the hatchet. and see how he reacts. they say love and hate are border line. good luck.
2007-09-02 13:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question should be why did you have such a vicious fight???
it sounds like he does not want to get over it and nothing you do will change that --- im sorry perhaps he is not such a nice person to have such a depth of dislike toward you --- you can not "make" someone like you --- ignore him date other guys --- NOT playing hard to get --- moving on with your life --- one of two things will happen --- he will realise he has deeper feelings for you than he realised or you will find someone who does care for you ---- best wishes
2007-09-02 13:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋