do you think it's stupid that parents won't let their daughter hang-out with boy or even TALK to them??!! because i met this girl at a camp i went to i e-mailed her a bit ago and she said back "i can't talk to or hang out with boy's now that i'm a teen" and i think her birthday was last sunday. i just find it really dumb! does anybody aggree with me?! if you don't please give me a good reason as to why.
2007-09-02 13:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
i'm not trying to hit on her! i'm just trying to be her friend. AND if she didn't want to talk to me how come whenever we were able to be with eachother we were always with each other. AND she asked me to b in a skit with her and a few other friends that i became friends with as well. and i even told her i just want 2 b friends with her.
2007-09-02 13:38:53 · update #1
i will not b going to school with her because she lives about 3 hours away from me.
2007-09-02 13:43:28 · update #2
Umm. it depends i think it depends on the parent..ive known poeple who were not allowed to date or kiss a guy ..like ever or until they get married , but i mean how are u supposed to do that without dating??..i may also be religion some do not allow that ...sod ont worry..maybe later her parents will get over
2007-09-02 13:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a teen son and yes I agree with you. I think it is ridiculous that a parent is that over protective. I thought I was bad because I want to meet all the parents of his friends and I call when he somewhere else to make sure he is where he said he is and to make sure there is a parent in the house. I think teens needs some freedom granted with proper supervision. My question to you would be your age if you are 16 or something I wouldn't allow it if she is 13. I would understand email though cause of all the creeps on the internet and would prefer the phone be used more often.
2007-09-06 13:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Greenie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its not stupid. You have to look at it from the parents point of view. There are too many teenage pregnancies out there. No parents wants that. Yeah... they should atleast be able to hang out or talk to guys... but there needs to be supervision.
2007-09-02 20:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by ϑennaß 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you. but right now her parents think that they are doing what is best for her....they love her and want to protect her.
when i was a teen, my parents were very strict about we hanging around with guys too. they let me talk to them and hang out, but NEVER alone. i hated it and i ran away at 19, but now looking back i realize that they just wanted to protect me. i got pregnant soon after i left home, and now they realize that they were TOO strict, but there's nothing that they can do now to change that. someday this girls parents will see that too, but until then there really isn't anything you can do.
2007-09-02 20:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by The Spazz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes parents can overreact. Sometimes girls use their parents as an excuse when they really don't want to talk to someone. I think it's probably the second in your case, sorry :(
2007-09-02 21:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that she made that up so she wouldnt hurt your feelings. it does seem very strange that the parents wont let her talk to you at all even at school or whatever. i just dont know
2007-09-02 20:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by sarah c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may not be into you and using her parents as an excuse.
2007-09-02 20:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by parental unit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ditto to what she said, she's just saying that. Sorry
2007-09-02 20:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kitten916 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋