There is a "friend" that i have and ive known him since we were toddlers and i like him but im not sure how to tell him and i dont wanna be the first to say something and he doesnt end up likeing me back
2007-09-02 13:31:17 · 20 answers · asked by kaylacrazynykia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No Guts No Glory. How is he supposed to know anything you do not tell him? Does he have some mystical powers that lets him read minds? I don't think so so you are gonna have to step up and say something. You dont want to speak up first and take the risk that he doesn't like you back. No Guts No Glory and you just keep on waiting.
2007-09-02 13:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie but people cannot read minds,espacially men. The best thing to do is to tell him in an open ended way, such as: "Can you ever imagine us dating?" or "My mother is always saying we would be a cute couple." If you've been friends for as long as you say you have he'll probably won't read to much into you questions. Espacially if you say it a playful way while in conversation.
2007-09-02 20:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by dont_u_b_intimidated182 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've known him since you were toddlers ask him! He is probably a really good friend and wouldn't be mean about it if he didn't feel the same way. So just ask him how he feels about you. Good luck!
2007-09-02 20:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer is magic.
If you like a guy, and he isn't aware, then the only way he can find out is if you tell him. Sorry; I wish there was a way for him to magically determine your level of interest.
But...... since there isn't..... you just have to let him know. After that, the ball is in his court. Until then... it is your obligation to let him know of your interest. Hopefully he will reciprocate... but if he doesn't... then just chalk it up to a learning experience, and move on.
2007-09-02 20:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off guys don't take hints just their brains are just not wired that way. You just have to let him know don't just blurt it out in one conversation but you can kick up the flirting a bit see how he reacts just start testing the waters he will only let it go as far as he wants it to.
Best of luck.
2007-09-02 20:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by dorkyitalianangelprincess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you need to figure something out and that you need his help, if he agrees to help you ask him to stand still then kiss him. If he kisses you back you're in like Flynn, if he doesn't make the excuse that you wanted to find out what it would be like to kiss him and thank him for helping you. That way you won't lose too much face.
2007-09-02 20:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by clusp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel if he is a complete gentleman (the one who go out with people and marry them/ the one who falls in love with one person) then you have to be careful
it seems like he is a complete gentleman
so first , you gotto do is.........
find away to attract him
anywyay
like helping others and stuff
then know everything he likes
then behave along it together
then everytime you see him, just smile at him (donbt talk for a while)
then once he asked you that why arent you talking with him then you say i feel like not to talk with any strangers!
then he wil (100%) fall in love with you
2007-09-02 20:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by oOo_tophothari_oOo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open. If he's your best friend, you should tell him. Don't come across like you like him alot in case he doesn't like you back, but just bring it up in the right mood, if he thinks you guys could ever be more than just friends.
2007-09-02 20:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by amour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter explaining how you feel and designed to convince him into going out with you. i don't know for sure if my idea will work on this particular person of yours, but if he refuses, it is his loss. furthermore, if a woman were to do such for me, i would feel like a fool to turn down such an awesome opportunity; i would gladly acquiesce to her offer, hiding how enthusiasticly infatuated i was with her.
good luck
2007-09-02 20:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by zonkniches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into his eyes...stare into his eyes and look happy and smile. And get close to him when you do this. this should be enough for most guys. If you need to, you can always touch him..on the arm/shoulder is fine. If your shy you can make the touch accidental.
2007-09-02 20:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋