Pangel should ....
how do you see me ?
is there anything you would like me to change ?
we should learn about ourself from constructive critisism and I often wonder how I come across in here... and in life
so be honest please.. and my friends who may want to just say nice things... think hard about this and help me improve rather than just trying to be sweet lol
xxx
2007-09-02 12:59:30 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
noooo no niceys
constructive remember lol
2007-09-02 13:03:30 · update #1
calmness that is something I have had on my mind lately
I have asked so many questions in the past , I have ran out of things to ask now lol
I will try my very best though
2007-09-02 13:06:08 · update #2
constructive isnt bad or negative
2007-09-02 13:09:12 · update #3
lol Andy thank you for your honesty ... but it doesnt help if you dont explain why
2007-09-02 13:32:34 · update #4
I would like you to ask more questions related to Religion and Spirituality ^^
Thank you for the chance youve given me to say this.
Now its off my chest ^^
2007-09-02 13:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Antares 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Annoying
You are obviously a very caring, thoughtful person who has an abundance of love to give out (which is a good thing for any person to have) but for me all this loving and hugging is way too much. It becomes annoying when you don't show your dark side, and please don't try telling me you don't have one because everyone does. I would love to see you having a right go at someone who's question you didn't like instead of asking R&S Regulars to give their opinion on the matter or sending them hugs and love. Maybe you have done this already but as a relative newcomer I haven't seen it yet. I hope you don't take this answer the wrong way because like many others on here I have a lot of respect for you but that respect could double if you could only show what a true leader you could really be.
2007-09-02 13:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by ANDY T 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Always nice, friendly, and encouraging...not one of those people that tries to tear others down! You seem like a really cool person...
constructive criticism? ok, only thing I can think of is it seems you sometimes prefer to say what others would like to hear rather than what is best for them to hear (that is, words that represent a more sincere caring for them). I am making this assumption perhaps because it seems as though sometimes you do not lock into any one truth, but consider truth relative to everyone.
But that may be a wrong assumption. In any regard, your positives far outweight your negatives from what I have seen!
BTW, like the new avatar...it's cool we finally get to see Pangel's face!!! :)
2007-09-02 13:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by whitehorse456 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pangel is the perfect example of Answers royalty.
She never judges, always 'plays nicely', and is among some of the contacts of mine that I class as the 'elite'.
I personally would never know anything about you that I would change, other than I would prefer it if I knew you in person, so location is one. lol
So an honest suggestion for you to change?
The only one I can come up with is:
Move to London. We need more decent people down here.
But then again, I guess decent people like you are more needed in Glasgow.
((((Pangel))))
2007-09-03 01:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pangel is---One of the most awesomely cool and caring people that I have come across on Yahoo. Even though we do not get to talk much, I know if I really needed advice & guidance I could email her and she would "be there"
Pangel should --ignore the haters who don't know anything about her. It is hard for a caring person like you to let peoples negative thoughts about you to slide on past but you should.
2007-09-02 13:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hi Pangel. I'm like a total egghead -- I've got two master's degrees in religious studies and a doctorate in psychology. And I find you one of the most emotionally intelligent individuals I've ever encountered. Your critiques of others are especially impressive to me, in that they are offered in such a way that those folks may actually listen and get your point ... and even if they don't others will.
I honestly tried to think of constructive criticism, and I can't come up with anything solid. The only thing that crossed my mind is a complete hypothetical -- and that would be to ask you to ask yourself whether you are as adept in embodying your emotional intelligence in the real world. I have no way of knowing that, so I hesitate to even mention it, but I have known folks, myself included, who can be more attracted to the virtual worlds of emails and chats then we are in the elbow-to-elbow world of in-the-flesh interactions.
Having wondered about that though, I again want you to have my expert and loving opinion that you really do benefit others with your presence, poise and perceptive perspective here.
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2007-09-02 14:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by bodhidave 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, I like many have to say that I enjoy your input on this site.
The only thing I could offer andi don't think it a critisism, but I remember when there was an idiot a while back that got to you. Don't let them.
You can see by the answers, that there is a large group of fair minded open people on here, like yourself who encourage open and thoughtful discusion.
We have to feel sorry for the closed mind.
Don't let 'them' get you down, it takes all sorts.
2007-09-02 13:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by suzy c 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do not see you at all, except a low resolution image on a virtual site? For all I know and care you could be a 50 stone Grannie sitting in a asylum in Holland?
As for change, we are the only people who can change ourselves, if change comes from an external force, then it is reluctantly accepted, but if it is internally driven, it will be wanted and achieved.
2007-09-02 13:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by DAVID C 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I haven't seen any of your other posts but this has me thinking that you appear insecure. Why?
I live my life as best I can. I do not exploit others and I help strangers, and family, with a good heart. I don't feel that I need to validate myself by asking others what they think of me.
It's just a pity that I suffer from the very same exploitation from others.
I hope that you don't feel that this is happening to you.
You should be happy with yourself, Pangel.
By the way, I think your hair is wonderful.
2007-09-02 14:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rob K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pangel needs a life outside of Answers. May I recomend Guild Wars? LOL At least what you kill stays dead.
BB,
Raji the Green Witch
2007-09-02 13:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Raji the Green Witch 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pangel was the name of my pet guinea pig when I was about 7.
2007-09-02 14:00:40 · answer #11 · answered by Vinyl Junkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋