Ie a virgin or semi virgin in early 20s only done it a coupel of times and hardly dated and no relationships longer then a few weeks
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someone in late teens say age 17 who a virgin or semi virgin in late teens only done it a coupel of times and hardly dated and no relationships longer then a few weeks.
Same experience. lots on common.
no this is not me a but a typical example to illustrate the point.
Likewiase how can the guy be preditory if hes virtually or is a virgion who has not been successful with girls by early 20s he clearly is crap at pulling ergo no seduction skills let alone manipluation skills.
Also work out matury in terms of interests.
ie if they like the same bands, clubs, parties, films etc
Clearly have lots in common.
Why not hang out with those his age.?
Clearly most coupled up and the girls have all been in log term relatioshipships with lots of exp so nothing in common with them.
If couple happy, whats the prob.?
2007-09-02
12:53:41
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If not happy they spit up...
Simple
If guy is an ashole why would girl go out with him.
Most likly the guys and the girl like each other hence going out.
Thats why people normally go out as have stuff in common isn't ti./
Likewise 18 and 27, 21 and 16, 22 and 32
etc etc.
Plus girls mature faster as they have more opportunities.
Ie saying the guy could be shy, clueless in asking girls, a rappy kisser.
at the how do you get girls to notice you, like you, how do you ask them out.?
tc
same as somone who is 16,17,18,19.
Ie both beginners so why people make a big deal and say things are bad etc and the person is being manipulative or preditory when never been so in their life.
it was other guys bullying, and being mean and messing his girl mates around.
Dude is honest, caring, campaigns for justice. etc etc.
Just lousy asking people out.
So year go past all lonley and nothing changes... thats what getting older means...
2007-09-02
12:58:20 ·
update #1
SEMI virgin means....
Not much experience doing it.
Ie a married couple of ten years is the opposite.
Ie not a virgion but not Mr cassanova either
2007-09-02
12:59:08 ·
update #2
IE think... dude may have had a couple of one night stands but still cant remove a bra with one hand whilst kissing.
Aint done it in golf courses, trains etc like mates.
said one night stands years apart.
As opposed to those in couples for 6 months or more.
And how about older people want to hang out with younger people as their mates are coupled up so nobody left to come out and party and dance and go clubbing as mates coupled up or now where siuits and dont go to gigs any more.
So saying why would that make somone preditory or manipluative or any of the other nonsese.
person is the same as always been.
Makes lots of girl mates but treated like the brother... the nice guy etc
2007-09-02
13:02:12 ·
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OK semi virgin was a bad way of putting it... enough already... get the general point just as somone has done it a few times and probably bee crap as a biggineer who hardly done it does not make them some super experienced type
thats all it was saying
2007-09-02
13:03:45 ·
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Under the age of 18 you are a child in the eyes of the law and to everyone else as well.
ACTAULLY IN THE UK THE AGE OF CONCENT IS 16.
THIS IS THE NORM IN MOST COUNTIRES...
2007-09-02
13:04:31 ·
update #5
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iTS SAYING MAYBE GUYS GO FOR YOUNGER GIRLS NOT AS THEY HAVE SINISTER MOTIVES
JUST THEY HAVE MORE IN COMMON WITH THOSE A LOT YOUNGER AS HAVE HAD AFF ALL EXPERINCE WITH GIRLS.
As girls can be really fussy as get like 20 offers a week and therefore get lots of dates which the guys pay for.
And that most people like people as ... well like them so why be preditory with somone who if not dating would make a good mate to go out with as part of the gang of mates anyway
2007-09-02
13:07:09 ·
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give up no one will agree with your weird views
Why wierd
Surely makes sense people date on the basis of having similar sexual experience and interests.
Likewise what has somone got in common with somone their own age if that person has been in a 5 year marrage ans has 2 kids.
When they have only had 6 dates where two of then came back for 4 weeks worth of dates.
And only have sex say twoice or four times etc over a period of 10 years.
Whats weird in that?
Saying not everyone of a set age has anything in common with those of that age.
So makes more sense they date those with whom they have experience in common.
2007-09-02
13:49:34 ·
update #7
Also Dan plenty of my mates have aggreed as have dated those age patterns. both the yonger mates and the older ones.
In all cases mates where happy for a while and were friends before
2007-09-02
13:51:05 ·
update #8