I like this guy, but I didn't find out until I already had feelings for him that he has a girlfriend. He's never mentioned her to me, and I only know she exists because of facebook. She lives a few hours away. He invited me over the other day and I had a lot of fun. He was really sweet and interested in what I had to say. He and his roommates, who just formed a band, played for me. They said I was their first audeince member ever. He kept looking over at me while he was playing (and maybe showing off? One roommate seemed to think he was, but I don't know if that was b/c I was there or if he always does that). Since I don't have a car on campus, he told me I can call him anytime I need a ride somewhere. After he dropped me off back home, he sent me a message telling me that it was good seeing me again and that he had a good time.
I know he isn't a player, because he's just such the caring kind of person, but I can't tell if he likes me.
What do you think? What should I do?
2007-09-02 12:48:58 · 4 answers · asked by iik8r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, so some people are getting the wrong idea, because I would NEVER do anything on purpose to break up a couple. All I've been doing is being his friend. That's it. Besides, he's been doing most of the initiating. He's told me several times that he wants me to call him every now and then. It's not like I'm trying to push myself into his life.
2007-09-02 13:18:43 · update #1
Just keep being friends with him and see where it leads. I started going out with a friend I had known for 7 yrs. We just went out as drinking buddies. In fact, she was engaged when we started. We fell in love and have been married 41 yrs. But even if we hadn't fallen in love, or if she hadn't dropped her fiance, we still had good times and enjoyed each other's company. So, I advise you to do the same. Enjoy his friendship and see where it leads.
2007-09-02 13:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are more than 3 billion men on the planet.
find one to call your own.
move on.
2007-09-02 12:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl friends arent wives........ the whole point is to shop around.
2007-09-02 12:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Home wrecker.
2007-09-02 12:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Google™ me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋