how do i confront her? or do i confront her at all, wont it just cause drama?
i mean i love her and im pissed that shes cheating but i dont want to break up. i found out she was cheating by accidently seeing this conversation she had online and i dont want her to think i was being nosey. i know they're not as serious as we are (or were) but i cant just let her keep doing what she's doing. we have a long distance relationship, so i know its hard for her, but its just as hard for me too. arrhhh, im so confused!! what should i do? please be serious.
2007-09-02 12:34:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks guys
2007-09-02 16:40:36 · update #1
You need to move on, my friend. Why would you even want to be with someone who cheats on you? I know that it's hard and it hurts, but you're only going to be hurt worse in the long run. Let her know that you caught her and get rid of her. There are too many good ones out there that will appreciate you and only you.
2007-09-02 13:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, tell her what you've told us. Then, ask her what's going on. Her answer may surprise you but everyone deserves a chance to explain themselves. Once you two have had a discussion you may find it easier to make a decision Be strong!
2007-09-02 13:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go up to her sometime and say this:
'look honey. when i was on the computer the other day i saw you were talking to another guy and i was wondering if you were having a relationship with someone else, or if this was an old conversation or whatever'
then depending on what she says you can decide were to go from there.
2007-09-02 13:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you found out and you're through. You're a fool if you continue on in that relationship. Move on and kick the *#^^# to the curb.
2007-09-02 12:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by AmericanPatriot 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you know she's cheating on you and break it off. Unless you want to deal with someone who doesn't love and respect you enough to be faithful.
2007-09-02 13:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Nico 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
r u serious??!!! shes cheating on u and ur willing to stay with her??! If I were u i would dump her, no matter how much love there was, b/c if shes cheating on u it means she doesnt feel the same way. SHE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU ENOUGH TO REMAIN LOYAL!!!!! GET IT!! dumb her dumb butt and get someone who really deserves u!!
2007-09-02 12:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by janie rey 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but an unfaithful lover is worthless. Move on.
2007-09-02 13:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need a serious talk with her.
2007-09-02 14:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
confront her about it & see what she says
2007-09-02 13:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by peter t 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-09-02 13:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋