We really like each other and are meeting up tomorrow. I would really like to make out with him seeing how he is pretty much my boyfriend as I am his girlfriend.
I am not not wanting to go south, but I would like to rub his back, neck, chest and arms while kissing. Will that turn him on? How do you guys make out with girls without getting 'excited'?
Thanks.
You can use examples, and tell me what you would do.
2007-09-02 12:01:59 · 40 answers · asked by Alex 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhm, i think she means gettin excited as in "ready to go for it excited" not "oo wow, she really likes me, lets c wat turns her on" kinda of makeout session...since obviously its gonna be ur first time making out with him, he should be a little more of a gentleman and take it slowly until he knows what ok in your book and whats not...if he just goes south or wants u to this early in a relationship, u should leave his @ss behind.. cus all he wants is another sex toy... but after a while of making out, u cant help but get more and more excited and adding some "tricks" here and there...but hopefully he's a good guy for you and best of luck!! have funn ;P
2007-09-02 18:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by GOonANDfall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck he is already excited because he know that you two will see each other soon. You are going to make it even worse by rubbing those areas. If you are not want to to go south you could always say you are on your period, many guys shy away from it then and not a lot of women like to be doping it when they are on the period, some do that is up to each person. Not for me, I'd be willing to help her out by fingering her or something but not sex. They say it helps with cramps, not begin of that gender I just have to take there word for it.
2007-09-02 12:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Yogi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. I swear this is the biggest oxymoron I have ever heard of. I mean how in the hell can you even be touching a guy and not get him excited? You don't even have to touch south, having you on him and rubbing around would get him excited. I seriously think that if you aren't ready for anything to get real sexual you shouldn't even be trying to make out with him at all. Because for most guys they don't want to stop once something is started. And rather you want to get it on or not wouldn't really enter into his head. So seriously don't start something and expect certain things not to happen. Because that is not realistic at all. Good luck to ya and try to be real with yourself as much as you can.
2007-09-02 12:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this right....you like the guy and want to make out with him, but you do not want him to get excited? Hmmm...are you currently on any medication?
What you ask is IMPOSSIBLE. No guy, making out with a decently hot girl (and this does not necessarily have to be the case), will remain NON or NOT Excited. Heck, some guys get worked up if a woman is in the general vicinity.
If you do not want him to 'get the wrong message', keep your hands (and other body parts) to yourself...heck...pretty much stay away from him. Guys have enough crap to deal with 'day-to-day'. Being a 'tease' will not improve your relationship with him.
2007-09-02 12:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by CajunAsian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to get excited if you are planning on touching his neck, back etc... but a small light kiss in plain view of the public should be just fine. Of course if you don't want him to get excited, you could just take long breaks in between short 'makeout sessions'. I'm not sure he'll like you for doing this though..
2007-09-02 12:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is now way to stop him from getting excited or wanting more. I suggest you just keep the rubbing to the areas you indicated and if he starts getting too worked up stop for a breather or grab a glass of water. If that doesn't work you can always pour the glass of water over him.
2007-09-02 12:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Holy Cow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that you are going to make out with him without him becoming excited. He'll probably be excited in anticipation and you haven't even touched him yet! Guys in their late teens walk around with a constant erection! Well, almost!
How can he be pretty much your boyfriend and you have never made out?
2007-09-02 12:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by cantcu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well the kissing is OK but the rubbing well you can't do that with out him getting excited especially if he likes you so maybe you should just stick to kissing with out tongue and rubbing until you can handle what comes after that.
2007-09-02 12:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the only thing you can do would be to tie him up first. The minute you start rubbing his back, neck, chest and arms he is going to go on full alert and head south with a vengeance and you will not stand a chance.
Use rope.
2007-09-02 12:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust me there is no way in the world for a guy not to be excited while making out. Try going slow but not too slow.
2007-09-02 12:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by devilsnerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋