My boyfriend has been asking me to have sex with him but i made the decision to be celibate and i'm afraid that he'll cheat on me if i don't have sex with him soon.>>> WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-09-02 10:44:10 · 28 answers · asked by LouLou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's pressuring you to have sex, why are you with him? There's guys out there who will respect your decision, and love you no matter what.
If he wants to cheat because you won't give him sex, LET HIM CHEAT. Or better yet... dump his sorry *** now and you'll never have to deal with him <3
2007-09-02 10:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by PaperHeart59 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready, then don't have sex.
If he cheats on you for not having sex, never think of it as i should've done it.
If he respects you at all, he'll also respect your decision to wait.
If he ends up cheating or breaking up with you, then he's not worth your time.
You'll find someone who respects you and loves you whether you'll have sex or not.
Only do something like sex, IF your ready.
Good Luck
2007-09-02 10:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about yourself worth. Mentally go threw the pros and cons. You know that afterwards you will feel pretty badly about yourself. You are worth a lot more than sex. If sex is the only way he'll stay with you, then c'ya you can probably get a guy who woun't pressure you for sex, therefore you can have a wonderful relationship.
2007-09-02 10:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It seems hard now, but it's not worth it. This is when you really find out whether or not he's a skeeze- he'll either accept your answer or throw a fit and whine like a little four year old on time out.
I think that if he was worth it you would be able to trust him enough not to think he would do that too.
2007-09-02 11:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Cotton Headed Ninny Muggins 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he cheats on you because you won't have sex with him then let him go. If he really loved you he would marry you and be able to have sex with you whenever without the guilt. And lets say that you do have sex with him and he still cheats? How will you feel then?
2007-09-02 10:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Survivor 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't compromise yourself or you will regret it later.
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http://www.katemcveigh.org
** "Single and Loving It"
** "The Blessings of Favor"
** "The Favor Factor"
http://www.therulesbook.com
** "The Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right"
http://www.gregbehrendt.com
** “He’s Just Not That Into You”
Written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
** “It’s Called A Breakup Because It’s Broken”
Written by Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt
Most of these can be gotten at your local library.
2007-09-02 10:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by ~Raspberry Tea~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to cheat because you don't have sex. He's going to cheat because you have incompatible beliefs. I'm all for sex before marriage, but if you're not, it would be a shame to cheapen your ideals and sell yourself short. Whatever you decide, make sure you're true to yourself.
2007-09-02 10:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! You stick to waiting till you find the right guy! You will only live with regrets because you didn't do it because you love him! As other people have said you do it he still leaves you and you just get hurt not worth!
2007-09-02 10:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by RoadRunner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this guy is not worth your time. If a guy wants to be wiht you for your personality then hes the perfect guy. If a guy is even thinking about cheating on you, why waste your time with him?
2007-09-02 10:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him make u feel that you have to sleep with him. U could probably decide that you would and he still ends up cheating on you. Dump him if he can't wait.
2007-09-02 10:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋